henrydreamx
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so what,it has nothing to do with the thread.swaptrex said:
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
How do I become ****y,confident and funny???
- Thread starter henrydreamx
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
MightyMate
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I think its just type of personality. You can try haning out with c+f friends, and learn something.
henrydreamx
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well thats a good idea,but I dont have friends.MightyMate said:I think its just type of personality. You can try haning out with c+f friends, and learn something.
Back to back negativity is a bad idea.
An optimist is finds opportunity in difficulties, a pessimist finds difficulty in every opportunity. I've told you this before.
You asked for an example of funny:
1. Go up to the mall customer service and ask them directions to the mall.
2. Rob a camera store. Test the camera and leave a picture of yourself there in the store.
3. Pronounce the name "Gina" like the "gina" in vagina.
4. Ask your mom what happened 9 months before your birthday. Hope that she doesn't reply you're dad was out of town.
5. Or learn to make your own funny based on the scenario and situation around you. You can only go so far using canned lines and unoriginality.
An optimist is finds opportunity in difficulties, a pessimist finds difficulty in every opportunity. I've told you this before.
You asked for an example of funny:
1. Go up to the mall customer service and ask them directions to the mall.
2. Rob a camera store. Test the camera and leave a picture of yourself there in the store.
3. Pronounce the name "Gina" like the "gina" in vagina.
4. Ask your mom what happened 9 months before your birthday. Hope that she doesn't reply you're dad was out of town.
5. Or learn to make your own funny based on the scenario and situation around you. You can only go so far using canned lines and unoriginality.
TedJustAdmitIt
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38 posts in one day...will a mod please ban this fvcking tard?
By IP preferably!
By IP preferably!
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Mr_rogers
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They tried that already. Didn't work.Ted said:38 posts in one day...will a mod please ban this fvcking tard?
By IP preferably!
henrydreamx
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Thats the sh*t I hate,just because I have alot of posts I get banned??Thats funny too me,its also stupid plus the mods dont run this site THE ADMININSTRATOR does and me and him are very good friends,so I CAN get you banned easily.Ted said:38 posts in one day...will a mod please ban this fvcking tard?
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lol yeh ure scenario in no way paints an actual picture of reality the god told me too was lame.. and so was the other one ure mentioning computers in ure opener thats mega man lame... stick to the basics before writing your own i wrote my own once which kinda worked when doing it u need to use lots of expression and stuff here it is
you : "i need to ask you a quick quistion?"
her : wha... (u cut her off)
you : "do u like ansering irrelavant quistions?"
then you start to slowly walk away she will stop u and give her anser and start asking why u asked it then you can go into any story and chain it together... for example she could be like why u ask that for? and u could be like well im really bad at beating shyness and im trying to practise talking to woman coz im a loser... or u could be like " i had a dog named irralavant quistions and it was a word play but u didnt get it"
you : "i need to ask you a quick quistion?"
her : wha... (u cut her off)
you : "do u like ansering irrelavant quistions?"
then you start to slowly walk away she will stop u and give her anser and start asking why u asked it then you can go into any story and chain it together... for example she could be like why u ask that for? and u could be like well im really bad at beating shyness and im trying to practise talking to woman coz im a loser... or u could be like " i had a dog named irralavant quistions and it was a word play but u didnt get it"
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
T Money
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Dude henry, post a picture of yourself, i'm curious to see the mastermind behind all this genius you've put forth on the boards thus far.