There is this girl I keep seeing in the parking lot at my college. We usually park close to each other because we go in the same side of the building. She is beautiful but I just don't know how to approach her because I don't know if she has a boyfriend or anything. I don't want to come off as creepy or anything. I'm real shy by the way.
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
How do i approach a girl in parking lot at college?
- Thread starter adamw5963
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Make sure she's looking in your direction when you start talking. If you try to speak to her while she can't see you, like running up to her from behind, her first reaction will be to jump in startled fear. If you can first exchange eye contact and a smile, then it doesn't really matter what you say.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
^ yes what bible said counts as well.
Dont be a creep and smile
so she knows you are not serious.
Dont get so worked up about it. Is she a perfect being? of course not!!! So why should you worry so much about making a good impression or not. Who the hell cares what she thinks or not at this point... she's just a total stranger. Be yourself and show her how great of a guy you are. If you think you are not that great... well.. then.... you need to improve yourself.
Also.. golden tip... Dont be weird!!! Remember, its only weird if you think its weird; you'll only give her those negative vibes and she'll acknowledge them as weird as well.
Dont be a creep and smile
so she knows you are not serious.Dont get so worked up about it. Is she a perfect being? of course not!!! So why should you worry so much about making a good impression or not. Who the hell cares what she thinks or not at this point... she's just a total stranger. Be yourself and show her how great of a guy you are. If you think you are not that great... well.. then.... you need to improve yourself.
Also.. golden tip... Dont be weird!!! Remember, its only weird if you think its weird; you'll only give her those negative vibes and she'll acknowledge them as weird as well.