There is this girl I keep seeing in the parking lot at my college. We usually park close to each other because we go in the same side of the building. She is beautiful but I just don't know how to approach her because I don't know if she has a boyfriend or anything. I don't want to come off as creepy or anything. I'm real shy by the way.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
How do i approach a girl in parking lot at college?
- Thread starter adamw5963
- Start date
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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
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Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Make sure she's looking in your direction when you start talking. If you try to speak to her while she can't see you, like running up to her from behind, her first reaction will be to jump in startled fear. If you can first exchange eye contact and a smile, then it doesn't really matter what you say.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
^ yes what bible said counts as well.
Dont be a creep and smile
so she knows you are not serious.
Dont get so worked up about it. Is she a perfect being? of course not!!! So why should you worry so much about making a good impression or not. Who the hell cares what she thinks or not at this point... she's just a total stranger. Be yourself and show her how great of a guy you are. If you think you are not that great... well.. then.... you need to improve yourself.
Also.. golden tip... Dont be weird!!! Remember, its only weird if you think its weird; you'll only give her those negative vibes and she'll acknowledge them as weird as well.
Dont be a creep and smile
so she knows you are not serious.Dont get so worked up about it. Is she a perfect being? of course not!!! So why should you worry so much about making a good impression or not. Who the hell cares what she thinks or not at this point... she's just a total stranger. Be yourself and show her how great of a guy you are. If you think you are not that great... well.. then.... you need to improve yourself.
Also.. golden tip... Dont be weird!!! Remember, its only weird if you think its weird; you'll only give her those negative vibes and she'll acknowledge them as weird as well.