There is this girl I keep seeing in the parking lot at my college. We usually park close to each other because we go in the same side of the building. She is beautiful but I just don't know how to approach her because I don't know if she has a boyfriend or anything. I don't want to come off as creepy or anything. I'm real shy by the way.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
How do i approach a girl in parking lot at college?
- Thread starter adamw5963
- Start date
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Make sure she's looking in your direction when you start talking. If you try to speak to her while she can't see you, like running up to her from behind, her first reaction will be to jump in startled fear. If you can first exchange eye contact and a smile, then it doesn't really matter what you say.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
^ yes what bible said counts as well.
Dont be a creep and smile
so she knows you are not serious.
Dont get so worked up about it. Is she a perfect being? of course not!!! So why should you worry so much about making a good impression or not. Who the hell cares what she thinks or not at this point... she's just a total stranger. Be yourself and show her how great of a guy you are. If you think you are not that great... well.. then.... you need to improve yourself.
Also.. golden tip... Dont be weird!!! Remember, its only weird if you think its weird; you'll only give her those negative vibes and she'll acknowledge them as weird as well.
Dont be a creep and smile
so she knows you are not serious.Dont get so worked up about it. Is she a perfect being? of course not!!! So why should you worry so much about making a good impression or not. Who the hell cares what she thinks or not at this point... she's just a total stranger. Be yourself and show her how great of a guy you are. If you think you are not that great... well.. then.... you need to improve yourself.
Also.. golden tip... Dont be weird!!! Remember, its only weird if you think its weird; you'll only give her those negative vibes and she'll acknowledge them as weird as well.