There is this girl I keep seeing in the parking lot at my college. We usually park close to each other because we go in the same side of the building. She is beautiful but I just don't know how to approach her because I don't know if she has a boyfriend or anything. I don't want to come off as creepy or anything. I'm real shy by the way.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
How do i approach a girl in parking lot at college?
- Thread starter adamw5963
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Make sure she's looking in your direction when you start talking. If you try to speak to her while she can't see you, like running up to her from behind, her first reaction will be to jump in startled fear. If you can first exchange eye contact and a smile, then it doesn't really matter what you say.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
^ yes what bible said counts as well.
Dont be a creep and smile
so she knows you are not serious.
Dont get so worked up about it. Is she a perfect being? of course not!!! So why should you worry so much about making a good impression or not. Who the hell cares what she thinks or not at this point... she's just a total stranger. Be yourself and show her how great of a guy you are. If you think you are not that great... well.. then.... you need to improve yourself.
Also.. golden tip... Dont be weird!!! Remember, its only weird if you think its weird; you'll only give her those negative vibes and she'll acknowledge them as weird as well.
Dont be a creep and smile
so she knows you are not serious.Dont get so worked up about it. Is she a perfect being? of course not!!! So why should you worry so much about making a good impression or not. Who the hell cares what she thinks or not at this point... she's just a total stranger. Be yourself and show her how great of a guy you are. If you think you are not that great... well.. then.... you need to improve yourself.
Also.. golden tip... Dont be weird!!! Remember, its only weird if you think its weird; you'll only give her those negative vibes and she'll acknowledge them as weird as well.