"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I will say this. Bratty behavior and over consumption of booze is not attractive after a while. It makes you look childish. And that is not how to attract a great woman.
Okay, but how does my profile picture look so far at 42?? It's the real me, ya know, about 2 weeks ago.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Quuuuuuueeeeeeeeennnnnnnnnnn BBeeeeeeeeeee!!!

You still haven't responded to me yet, and you're on here once an hour. WTF?

Meow always responds to me, and she's only on here like once a week.

I think I like her better than you now. :(
 

zekko

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So to answer OPs question, be good-looking with good style etc and the quality woman you are looking for will come up to you and start conversation.
Don't forget "Be tall".
:)
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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not how to attract a great woman
Yet who did these two quality women date before the man they ultimately married?
I was just coming off a LTR with an alcoholic/drug addict who I was madly in love with at the time and addicted to.
My last LTR was a serious binge drinker. Truly a binge alcoholic. Although I didn’t realize this at the outset of the relationship I continued to see him after coming to understand the situation.

Bruh the first rule of Manosphere is dont ask women for advice relating to women
 

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Yes, most people are ignorant. But there are those who are self-aware.

@BeExcellent and @catsmeow2 both appear to have secured loyal and faithful alphas, and they know it. Which makes them valuable to me. I am an alpha, and I want their insights into how they secured theirs, in hopes that it will help me attract my quality mate.

Please, for the love of all things Holy, don't derail my thread again. I want answers. And persistence, I've found, is my strongest asset.
If you were alpha..you wouldn't be asking that
 

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Somebody in the white coats come for ......@doublebarrel
 

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"How did you know he was the one?"

I think most cases are something like these: High quality girl takes a look at a guy. She gets vaginal tingles. She gets to know the guy ands screens for red flags. She enjoys his company. She doesn´t find any deal breakers so she proceeds with sex/LTR. Also, intentionally or not, the guy somehow goes to the top of @Desdinova ´s High Score List, hence she considers him "The One" or her soulmate.

 
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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OP,

I enjoy different perspectives as well, but your threads are complete cringe. Not to mention I would give it maybe a D+ as far as trolling goes - which it clearly is. Everyone here understands you just want attention or you would have sent a private DM to the two women.
 

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OP,

I enjoy different perspectives as well, but your threads are complete cringe. Not to mention I would give it maybe a D+ as far as trolling goes - which it clearly is. Everyone here understands you just want attention or you would have sent a private DM to the two women.
I enjoy engaging in banter and debate and some serious discussion when I am drinking. So yes, maybe I do want attention. But what's so wrong with that. It's fun and it brings me joy.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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