DoubleBarrel
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Okay, but how does my profile picture look so far at 42?? It's the real me, ya know, about 2 weeks ago.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
How did you know he was the one?
- Thread starter DoubleBarrel
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
DoubleBarrel
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I only have 2-3 white beard hairs! How cool is that??
DoubleBarrel
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Quuuuuuueeeeeeeeennnnnnnnnnn BBeeeeeeeeeee!!!
You still haven't responded to me yet, and you're on here once an hour. WTF?
Meow always responds to me, and she's only on here like once a week.
I think I like her better than you now.
You still haven't responded to me yet, and you're on here once an hour. WTF?
Meow always responds to me, and she's only on here like once a week.
I think I like her better than you now.
zekko
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DoubleBarrel
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C'mon, @zekko, my man, @catsmeow2's response was pretty great, no?Don't forget "Be tall".
But look at Napoleon Bonaparte! Short guy, but do you think he didn't command respect from men and women alike? Then you're kidding yourself!
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Velasco
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Yet who did these two quality women date before the man they ultimately married?
DoubleBarrel
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Then I'm right on par with my drinking. I'm having a sip right now.Yet who did these two quality women date before the man they ultimately married?
Rainman4707
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If you were alpha..you wouldn't be asking that
Rainman4707
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Somebody in the white coats come for ......@doublebarrel
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"How did you know he was the one?"
I think most cases are something like these: High quality girl takes a look at a guy. She gets vaginal tingles. She gets to know the guy ands screens for red flags. She enjoys his company. She doesn´t find any deal breakers so she proceeds with sex/LTR. Also, intentionally or not, the guy somehow goes to the top of @Desdinova ´s High Score List, hence she considers him "The One" or her soulmate.
www.sosuave.net
I think most cases are something like these: High quality girl takes a look at a guy. She gets vaginal tingles. She gets to know the guy ands screens for red flags. She enjoys his company. She doesn´t find any deal breakers so she proceeds with sex/LTR. Also, intentionally or not, the guy somehow goes to the top of @Desdinova ´s High Score List, hence she considers him "The One" or her soulmate.
High Score Theory
Ever notice how women can just write off a guy and treat him like he was only a tiny blip on her radar? Well that's because he was. The more sexually experienced a woman becomes, the more accustomed she is to just throwing guys away. Every new guy she dates seems to earn mediocre to low interest...
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
DoubleBarrel
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I know, I'm such a Beta, huh?
Oh, it's already happened. Many times, in fact.
BeExcellent
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@DoubleBarrel search & read the old thread How to Spot a Unicorn.
DoubleBarrel
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Will do. Thanks!
Barrister
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OP,
I enjoy different perspectives as well, but your threads are complete cringe. Not to mention I would give it maybe a D+ as far as trolling goes - which it clearly is. Everyone here understands you just want attention or you would have sent a private DM to the two women.
I enjoy different perspectives as well, but your threads are complete cringe. Not to mention I would give it maybe a D+ as far as trolling goes - which it clearly is. Everyone here understands you just want attention or you would have sent a private DM to the two women.
DoubleBarrel
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I enjoy engaging in banter and debate and some serious discussion when I am drinking. So yes, maybe I do want attention. But what's so wrong with that. It's fun and it brings me joy.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Women love us for our defects. If we have enough of them, they will forgive us everything, even our intellectsYet who did these two quality women date before the man they ultimately married?