"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How did you grow in 2018?

Roober

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I see SS as more of a place to grow than complain about failings in life, whether it be with women, family, career, or anything else. However, as 2018 comes to an end, i am curious as to how everyone else has improved in 2018. Its important to write things like this down because 8t makes it real and provides something you can review this time next year.

Use this thread to share your growth for the main part of your life.

MONEY. Examples such as...
-growth income percent (please keep salaries private)?
-new career?
-net worth increase?
-other increases to your financial situation?

LOOKS. Examples such as...
-lowered body fat percebt?
-increased weight or repetition?
-updated wardrobe?
-ran a marathon?
-other things which make your physical appearance better?

STATUS. Examples such as...
-improved social circle?
-started a new social circle?

MIND.
-what have you learned?
-what have you read?
-what have you written?
-do you meditate?
-have you seemed therapy or counseling?
-any other areas your mind may have improved?

WOMEN
-how many women have you laid?
-has your LTR improved?
-whatvhas improved with women?

Now, this isnt a comprehensive list, so feel free to add other topics. Please do share though as I would love to hear how everyone has improved in 2018.

Time is our most valuable asset, how did you spend yours?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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marmel75

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I got a bionic d!ck implanted and grew 3 inches! D!ck the Frog would be proud...
 

redskinsfan92

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Discovered SS.
Took the red pill.
Read more books.
Learned a lot about myself.
Earned a raise and laid out my career goals with my boss for the next year.
Started studying Spanish.
Went to new places almost every weekend.
 

evan12

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Financially I got better, not because my salaries raised but because I spent some time cutting my spending and finding better mortgage rates , etc
Learned a lot about real estate as I was planning to buy rental unit , however Canada home prices just sky rocked so decided to wait .

2018 was also a year when I felt kind of overwhelmed by my dreams, too many start-up ideas , looking for different investments however not much was accomplished .
 

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I can´t complain. I got this huge promotion at the State University so I´ll be making twice the money I was, for life Yo!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Roober

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Sounds good, thanks for sharing guys. Make 2019 even better!
 

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2018 is the year I spend mostly consolidating my power base.

2019 will be spent on expanding.

The rest is merely details.
 
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