"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How did you grow in 2018?

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I see SS as more of a place to grow than complain about failings in life, whether it be with women, family, career, or anything else. However, as 2018 comes to an end, i am curious as to how everyone else has improved in 2018. Its important to write things like this down because 8t makes it real and provides something you can review this time next year.

Use this thread to share your growth for the main part of your life.

MONEY. Examples such as...
-growth income percent (please keep salaries private)?
-new career?
-net worth increase?
-other increases to your financial situation?

LOOKS. Examples such as...
-lowered body fat percebt?
-increased weight or repetition?
-updated wardrobe?
-ran a marathon?
-other things which make your physical appearance better?

STATUS. Examples such as...
-improved social circle?
-started a new social circle?

MIND.
-what have you learned?
-what have you read?
-what have you written?
-do you meditate?
-have you seemed therapy or counseling?
-any other areas your mind may have improved?

WOMEN
-how many women have you laid?
-has your LTR improved?
-whatvhas improved with women?

Now, this isnt a comprehensive list, so feel free to add other topics. Please do share though as I would love to hear how everyone has improved in 2018.

Time is our most valuable asset, how did you spend yours?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I got a bionic d!ck implanted and grew 3 inches! D!ck the Frog would be proud...
 

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Discovered SS.
Took the red pill.
Read more books.
Learned a lot about myself.
Earned a raise and laid out my career goals with my boss for the next year.
Started studying Spanish.
Went to new places almost every weekend.
 

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Financially I got better, not because my salaries raised but because I spent some time cutting my spending and finding better mortgage rates , etc
Learned a lot about real estate as I was planning to buy rental unit , however Canada home prices just sky rocked so decided to wait .

2018 was also a year when I felt kind of overwhelmed by my dreams, too many start-up ideas , looking for different investments however not much was accomplished .
 

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I can´t complain. I got this huge promotion at the State University so I´ll be making twice the money I was, for life Yo!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Sounds good, thanks for sharing guys. Make 2019 even better!
 

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2018 is the year I spend mostly consolidating my power base.

2019 will be spent on expanding.

The rest is merely details.
 
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