"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How destroyed am I?

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I made a big mistake this weekend, and need some kind of damage analysis.

Got invited to eat dinner at a girl friends place, with her new bisexual girl friend. For the time I have known the girl I have thought that she is down right stupid, but have tried to remain polite as I do business with her step father. The old "parents" (she is adopted) have tried to get us together but I have tried to stay clear.

The problem is I started dominating and insulting her as soon as I came there. Things I have thought during the time we have known each other just blurted out and I can still see the amazement in the girls faces. So the girls would have none of it as we went out clubbing afterwards. We went our separate ways, and as I sent her a message the day after to apologize for my behaviour she coldly and in my opinion correctly wrote that "...my behaviour was rude to say the least. You do not have to say all you think even if you stand by it. Embarrassing".

So how f*cked am I, in how wide of a circle of women? Do I move to another country?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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You should def. move to another country... in fact, just move to another planet. Then we don't have to deal with your lame questions here.
 
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Cashew said:
You should def. move to another country... in fact, just move to another planet. Then we don't have to deal with your lame questions here.
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AHAHAHAHA!! :D
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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