"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How destroyed am I?

blatantly81

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I made a big mistake this weekend, and need some kind of damage analysis.

Got invited to eat dinner at a girl friends place, with her new bisexual girl friend. For the time I have known the girl I have thought that she is down right stupid, but have tried to remain polite as I do business with her step father. The old "parents" (she is adopted) have tried to get us together but I have tried to stay clear.

The problem is I started dominating and insulting her as soon as I came there. Things I have thought during the time we have known each other just blurted out and I can still see the amazement in the girls faces. So the girls would have none of it as we went out clubbing afterwards. We went our separate ways, and as I sent her a message the day after to apologize for my behaviour she coldly and in my opinion correctly wrote that "...my behaviour was rude to say the least. You do not have to say all you think even if you stand by it. Embarrassing".

So how f*cked am I, in how wide of a circle of women? Do I move to another country?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Cashew

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You should def. move to another country... in fact, just move to another planet. Then we don't have to deal with your lame questions here.
 

Groovy

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Cashew said:
You should def. move to another country... in fact, just move to another planet. Then we don't have to deal with your lame questions here.
AHAHAHAHA!! :D
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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