"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How destroyed am I?

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I made a big mistake this weekend, and need some kind of damage analysis.

Got invited to eat dinner at a girl friends place, with her new bisexual girl friend. For the time I have known the girl I have thought that she is down right stupid, but have tried to remain polite as I do business with her step father. The old "parents" (she is adopted) have tried to get us together but I have tried to stay clear.

The problem is I started dominating and insulting her as soon as I came there. Things I have thought during the time we have known each other just blurted out and I can still see the amazement in the girls faces. So the girls would have none of it as we went out clubbing afterwards. We went our separate ways, and as I sent her a message the day after to apologize for my behaviour she coldly and in my opinion correctly wrote that "...my behaviour was rude to say the least. You do not have to say all you think even if you stand by it. Embarrassing".

So how f*cked am I, in how wide of a circle of women? Do I move to another country?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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You should def. move to another country... in fact, just move to another planet. Then we don't have to deal with your lame questions here.
 
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Cashew said:
You should def. move to another country... in fact, just move to another planet. Then we don't have to deal with your lame questions here.
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AHAHAHAHA!! :D
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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