"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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How destroyed am I?

blatantly81

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I made a big mistake this weekend, and need some kind of damage analysis.

Got invited to eat dinner at a girl friends place, with her new bisexual girl friend. For the time I have known the girl I have thought that she is down right stupid, but have tried to remain polite as I do business with her step father. The old "parents" (she is adopted) have tried to get us together but I have tried to stay clear.

The problem is I started dominating and insulting her as soon as I came there. Things I have thought during the time we have known each other just blurted out and I can still see the amazement in the girls faces. So the girls would have none of it as we went out clubbing afterwards. We went our separate ways, and as I sent her a message the day after to apologize for my behaviour she coldly and in my opinion correctly wrote that "...my behaviour was rude to say the least. You do not have to say all you think even if you stand by it. Embarrassing".

So how f*cked am I, in how wide of a circle of women? Do I move to another country?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Cashew

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You should def. move to another country... in fact, just move to another planet. Then we don't have to deal with your lame questions here.
 

Groovy

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Cashew said:
You should def. move to another country... in fact, just move to another planet. Then we don't have to deal with your lame questions here.
AHAHAHAHA!! :D
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

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