What you've REALLY just done is fallen into the most clever reverse-psychology gambit women have in their arsenal. You've been blinded by the prospect of victory, so you don't realize you've been suddenly swept into the REAL challenge.
I'm gonna be frank with you, all this '**** test' talk was confusing af at first. No, not this post, I'm talking about overall. And really, I realized the problem is that a lot of posters on here
overcook it way too much. And I mean, way, way too much.
Instead of analyzing the woman for tests, why not just be confident and be honest with her? Why overcomplicate things by having to think about what's a test vs what's not? If anything,
you can be testing
her and seeing if
she's not a gold digger, etc. Have
her be the one who thinks she's losing
you so that
she takes the 'hold-the-line' mentality.
And honestly...how SHOULD you? Especially if this is your first time reaching that point with a woman? Even the best game-runners have no CLUE this is coming and fall to this gambit. The ONLY men who survive it are "naturals".
Eventually you'll reach a point where you don't have to
worry about how much texting you're doing, how much you're buying, etc. If you make
one mistake it probably won't end the relationship - it's doing it twice that might end in tragedy, but if it turns out you're a walking p ussy with no backbone to speak of, then that sure as hell will make her ghost you.