Same but it's not over, I can just feel the neediness growing and it's frightening. Have to cut that **** off. You think by now it would be easier.That is exactly what happened to me in my last relationship. I "captured" a high value woman and then she dominated the relationship because I became insecure. She was the first (I'm 34) woman I can say I loved and it caused a lot of pain. I am absolutely loving The Rational Male right now. I have serious work to do.