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How could I have played this better?

Weezy

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Me: Talk shi1.
Her: Haha! Talk sh1t back
Me: Talk more sh1t.
Her: Hahaha! More sh1t talking.
Me: Sh1t talk.. You wanna watch movie X before I have to pay late fees
Her: Yes I do, when's it due back?
Me: funny joke about renting it... How's your schedule tomorrow?
Her: maybe, I'm on call so I'm not sure if I have to work or not.
Her: You have plans Thurs??
Me: On call sounds awesome.. I can switch my Thur plans to tomorrow.
Her: It's easy money, don't do that I'll feel bad.
Me: It's not a big deal... But if you're gonna feel bad we can do it another time.
Her: Well if it's not a big deal then switch it up.
Me: Switchin.. Meet at my place around 7?
Her: See ya then!

Think I supplicated to her by letting her know I was changing plans to kick it...
The plans were just getting a drink with a buddy but thinking I could have played it better. Any thoughts would be appreciated.
 
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squirrels

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She doesn't know what your Thursday plans were. Just don't do it too often.

In this case, since she gave you a concrete counter-offer date, I don't see a problem. It wasn't like you just threw out 3 or 4 days and she turned them down.
 

jophil28

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NO problem there Weezy.

I think that we can over-think and over emphasize the importance of "DJ" talk some times. Believe it or not, her attraction for you is NOT pivoting on your every utterance.
Relax a bit, take a breath .
If you have established your dominance, and the frame is your's, you can slip and slide occasionally.
A woman who has a decent interest in you does NOT have to be gamed in every convo.

Lose the white knuckles, boys.
 

Weezy

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jophil28 said:
NO problem there Weezy.

I think that we can over-think and over emphasize the importance of "DJ" talk some times. Believe it or not, her attraction for you is NOT pivoting on your every utterance.
Relax a bit, take a breath .
If you have established your dominance, and the frame is your's, you can slip and slide occasionally.
A woman who has a decent interest in you does NOT have to be gamed in every convo.

Lose the white knuckles, boys.
Many thanks bro. This post helped a lot. Finally got to f close.
 
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