"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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How could I have played this better?

Weezy

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Me: Talk shi1.
Her: Haha! Talk sh1t back
Me: Talk more sh1t.
Her: Hahaha! More sh1t talking.
Me: Sh1t talk.. You wanna watch movie X before I have to pay late fees
Her: Yes I do, when's it due back?
Me: funny joke about renting it... How's your schedule tomorrow?
Her: maybe, I'm on call so I'm not sure if I have to work or not.
Her: You have plans Thurs??
Me: On call sounds awesome.. I can switch my Thur plans to tomorrow.
Her: It's easy money, don't do that I'll feel bad.
Me: It's not a big deal... But if you're gonna feel bad we can do it another time.
Her: Well if it's not a big deal then switch it up.
Me: Switchin.. Meet at my place around 7?
Her: See ya then!

Think I supplicated to her by letting her know I was changing plans to kick it...
The plans were just getting a drink with a buddy but thinking I could have played it better. Any thoughts would be appreciated.
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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She doesn't know what your Thursday plans were. Just don't do it too often.

In this case, since she gave you a concrete counter-offer date, I don't see a problem. It wasn't like you just threw out 3 or 4 days and she turned them down.
 

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NO problem there Weezy.

I think that we can over-think and over emphasize the importance of "DJ" talk some times. Believe it or not, her attraction for you is NOT pivoting on your every utterance.
Relax a bit, take a breath .
If you have established your dominance, and the frame is your's, you can slip and slide occasionally.
A woman who has a decent interest in you does NOT have to be gamed in every convo.

Lose the white knuckles, boys.
 

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jophil28 said:
NO problem there Weezy.

I think that we can over-think and over emphasize the importance of "DJ" talk some times. Believe it or not, her attraction for you is NOT pivoting on your every utterance.
Relax a bit, take a breath .
If you have established your dominance, and the frame is your's, you can slip and slide occasionally.
A woman who has a decent interest in you does NOT have to be gamed in every convo.

Lose the white knuckles, boys.
Many thanks bro. This post helped a lot. Finally got to f close.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

Read more...

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