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How common are drunken hookups? Especially with people you don't know?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
How common are drunken hookups? Especially with people you don't know?
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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Master Don Juan
Statistics lie, but it's very common. It's very common amongst College towns..especially party Universities, ya might want to Travel outside the country to check some good places out like Amsterdam, Paris, or Tokyo...there night life offers a vivid experience. Drunken hook ups are a reflection of ones motives and state of mind, so learn how to feel great without a woman's validation and enjoy your life.
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They happen a lot when people are out trying to get laid and use alcohol as the excuse
Arewedoomed
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What do you mean by your last sentence?
Travel memoir21
Master Don Juan
If you see Drunken hook ups a source for great validation you're in a rude awakening, most likely than not you'll just end up in a crappier state of mind when the deed is done and end up feeling more lonely. A meditation session, yoga session, weight lifting session and 3-5 mile runs in the morning is what you need over such a foolish, self gratifying thing. Learn how to feel great without a woman's approval. Have goals and passions in your life that you're after, have a purpose and short term goals to where you want to be in a few years along with great self improvement habits and you're one step closer towards enlightenment.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.