Arewedoomed
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How common are drunken hookups? Especially with people you don't know?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
How common are drunken hookups? Especially with people you don't know?
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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Master Don Juan
Statistics lie, but it's very common. It's very common amongst College towns..especially party Universities, ya might want to Travel outside the country to check some good places out like Amsterdam, Paris, or Tokyo...there night life offers a vivid experience. Drunken hook ups are a reflection of ones motives and state of mind, so learn how to feel great without a woman's validation and enjoy your life.
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They happen a lot when people are out trying to get laid and use alcohol as the excuse
Arewedoomed
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What do you mean by your last sentence?
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Master Don Juan
If you see Drunken hook ups a source for great validation you're in a rude awakening, most likely than not you'll just end up in a crappier state of mind when the deed is done and end up feeling more lonely. A meditation session, yoga session, weight lifting session and 3-5 mile runs in the morning is what you need over such a foolish, self gratifying thing. Learn how to feel great without a woman's approval. Have goals and passions in your life that you're after, have a purpose and short term goals to where you want to be in a few years along with great self improvement habits and you're one step closer towards enlightenment.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.