MatureDJ
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Wouldn't want to risk getting attacked by a rabid squirrel should you venture outside![]()
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Wouldn't want to risk getting attacked by a rabid squirrel should you venture outside![]()
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Dude, you've never collected rent in tough areas, so you have no idea what you are talking about. But, believe whatever you say.. As I've posted before, I've been in a shoot out more than once a few years ago in Bridgeport and New Haven. Consider some areas similar to Irvington or East/South Orange NJ to give you an idea.I already mentioned, a carry permit is
not needed to collect rent from properties. This is strawmaning.
I do not have a “permit license” for my house. In NJ it is simply a license to purchase. Two tiers, dependent on handgun or not.
Irrelevant. Carrying a legal firearm to any property you own does not require a carry permit.Dude, you've never collected rent in tough areas, so you have no idea what you are talking about. But, believe whatever you say.. As I've posted before, I've been in a shoot out more than once a few years ago in Bridgeport and New Haven. Consider some areas similar to Irvington or East/South Orange NJ to give you an idea.
Keep taking those Ls.Why you need your weapon in Walmart is beyond me
If an incel starts shooting up walmart you are running in the opposite direction.Keep taking those Ls.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
The common thread to these guys seems to be social isolation, so of course by definition they would be incels.Sex = happiness. Most mass shooters are incels. For some, inceldom is a very large motivating factor. George Sodini and Eliot Rodger are two of the bigger names who were mass shooters as a result of being incel. The Columbine High School shooters were social outcasts and incels.
It’s a destructive type of depression containing intense inner anger, so they’re usually socially withdrawn in an effort to blend in because of it. Attempted suicide, tendency to violence, and actually killing others are all defining characteristics of it’s endgame …The common thread to these guys seems to be social isolation, so of course by definition they would be incels.
If a big, muscular Chad gets frustrated, he'd probably just punch somebody.
The United States has different cultures than Canada and Australia at large.Show us the daily mass plowings and mass explosions in Canada and Australia.
A culture of mass shootingsThe United States has different cultures than Canada and Australia at large.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Not true. Not sure where you've read your law, but one cannot carry their firearm outside their residence w/o CCP. Since I do not live at 123 Walnut Street, Apt 2, I cannot go to the building carrying a firearm w/o a CCP. Not in CT and definitely not in NJ. NJ may be harder to get than NYC.Irrelevant. Carrying a legal firearm to any property you own does not require a carry permit.
We are talking past each other at this point with semantics. Your desire is to carry a loaded firearm on your person at all times. NJ is a state that require you to prove you have a damn good reason to do that. However, NJ does not prevent civilians legal possession and use of a firearm while hunting, at shooting ranges, at legal place of business, or on land that they own.Not true. Not sure where you've read your law, but one cannot carry their firearm outside their residence w/o CCP. Since I do not live at 123 Walnut Street, Apt 2, I cannot go to the building carrying a firearm w/o a CCP. Not in CT and definitely not in NJ. NJ may be harder to get than NYC.
The reason is for protection of your life. That should be good enough for anyone.NJ is a state that require you to prove you have a damn good reason to do that.
Protection of your life from what?The reason is for protection of your life. That should be good enough for anyone.
Protection of your life from what?
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Per my post above- in my state NJ you are able to legally possess a firearm in one’s place of legal business. If you are in a legal business of mobile transporting large amounts of cash, you should have no problem obtaining a carry permit.I’ve owned a cash business, lived where response times are shyte, and there is no way in hell I’m going to leave my safety in the hands of the Uvalde Popo types.
I can legally carry in 32 states and I will continue to. What most gun control advocates do not understand is that 99% of people who carry rue the day they’d ever have to use their sidearm.
Shut up, EyeB and let the adults talk.Protection of your life from what?
Whatever you say dude. You have no clue, but whatever you say.We are talking past each other at this point with semantics. Your desire is to carry a loaded firearm on your person at all times. NJ is a state that require you to prove you have a damn good reason to do that. However, NJ does not prevent civilians legal possession and use of a firearm while hunting, at shooting ranges, at legal place of business, or on land that they own.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.