MatureDJ
Master Don Juan
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Wouldn't want to risk getting attacked by a rabid squirrel should you venture outside![]()
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Wouldn't want to risk getting attacked by a rabid squirrel should you venture outside![]()
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Dude, you've never collected rent in tough areas, so you have no idea what you are talking about. But, believe whatever you say.. As I've posted before, I've been in a shoot out more than once a few years ago in Bridgeport and New Haven. Consider some areas similar to Irvington or East/South Orange NJ to give you an idea.I already mentioned, a carry permit is
not needed to collect rent from properties. This is strawmaning.
I do not have a “permit license” for my house. In NJ it is simply a license to purchase. Two tiers, dependent on handgun or not.
Irrelevant. Carrying a legal firearm to any property you own does not require a carry permit.Dude, you've never collected rent in tough areas, so you have no idea what you are talking about. But, believe whatever you say.. As I've posted before, I've been in a shoot out more than once a few years ago in Bridgeport and New Haven. Consider some areas similar to Irvington or East/South Orange NJ to give you an idea.
Keep taking those Ls.Why you need your weapon in Walmart is beyond me
If an incel starts shooting up walmart you are running in the opposite direction.Keep taking those Ls.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
The common thread to these guys seems to be social isolation, so of course by definition they would be incels.Sex = happiness. Most mass shooters are incels. For some, inceldom is a very large motivating factor. George Sodini and Eliot Rodger are two of the bigger names who were mass shooters as a result of being incel. The Columbine High School shooters were social outcasts and incels.
It’s a destructive type of depression containing intense inner anger, so they’re usually socially withdrawn in an effort to blend in because of it. Attempted suicide, tendency to violence, and actually killing others are all defining characteristics of it’s endgame …The common thread to these guys seems to be social isolation, so of course by definition they would be incels.
If a big, muscular Chad gets frustrated, he'd probably just punch somebody.
The United States has different cultures than Canada and Australia at large.Show us the daily mass plowings and mass explosions in Canada and Australia.
A culture of mass shootingsThe United States has different cultures than Canada and Australia at large.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Not true. Not sure where you've read your law, but one cannot carry their firearm outside their residence w/o CCP. Since I do not live at 123 Walnut Street, Apt 2, I cannot go to the building carrying a firearm w/o a CCP. Not in CT and definitely not in NJ. NJ may be harder to get than NYC.Irrelevant. Carrying a legal firearm to any property you own does not require a carry permit.
We are talking past each other at this point with semantics. Your desire is to carry a loaded firearm on your person at all times. NJ is a state that require you to prove you have a damn good reason to do that. However, NJ does not prevent civilians legal possession and use of a firearm while hunting, at shooting ranges, at legal place of business, or on land that they own.Not true. Not sure where you've read your law, but one cannot carry their firearm outside their residence w/o CCP. Since I do not live at 123 Walnut Street, Apt 2, I cannot go to the building carrying a firearm w/o a CCP. Not in CT and definitely not in NJ. NJ may be harder to get than NYC.
The reason is for protection of your life. That should be good enough for anyone.NJ is a state that require you to prove you have a damn good reason to do that.
Protection of your life from what?The reason is for protection of your life. That should be good enough for anyone.
Protection of your life from what?
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Per my post above- in my state NJ you are able to legally possess a firearm in one’s place of legal business. If you are in a legal business of mobile transporting large amounts of cash, you should have no problem obtaining a carry permit.I’ve owned a cash business, lived where response times are shyte, and there is no way in hell I’m going to leave my safety in the hands of the Uvalde Popo types.
I can legally carry in 32 states and I will continue to. What most gun control advocates do not understand is that 99% of people who carry rue the day they’d ever have to use their sidearm.
Shut up, EyeB and let the adults talk.Protection of your life from what?
Whatever you say dude. You have no clue, but whatever you say.We are talking past each other at this point with semantics. Your desire is to carry a loaded firearm on your person at all times. NJ is a state that require you to prove you have a damn good reason to do that. However, NJ does not prevent civilians legal possession and use of a firearm while hunting, at shooting ranges, at legal place of business, or on land that they own.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.