MatureDJ
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Wouldn't want to risk getting attacked by a rabid squirrel should you venture outside![]()
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Wouldn't want to risk getting attacked by a rabid squirrel should you venture outside![]()
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Dude, you've never collected rent in tough areas, so you have no idea what you are talking about. But, believe whatever you say.. As I've posted before, I've been in a shoot out more than once a few years ago in Bridgeport and New Haven. Consider some areas similar to Irvington or East/South Orange NJ to give you an idea.I already mentioned, a carry permit is
not needed to collect rent from properties. This is strawmaning.
I do not have a “permit license” for my house. In NJ it is simply a license to purchase. Two tiers, dependent on handgun or not.
Irrelevant. Carrying a legal firearm to any property you own does not require a carry permit.Dude, you've never collected rent in tough areas, so you have no idea what you are talking about. But, believe whatever you say.. As I've posted before, I've been in a shoot out more than once a few years ago in Bridgeport and New Haven. Consider some areas similar to Irvington or East/South Orange NJ to give you an idea.
Keep taking those Ls.Why you need your weapon in Walmart is beyond me
If an incel starts shooting up walmart you are running in the opposite direction.Keep taking those Ls.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
The common thread to these guys seems to be social isolation, so of course by definition they would be incels.Sex = happiness. Most mass shooters are incels. For some, inceldom is a very large motivating factor. George Sodini and Eliot Rodger are two of the bigger names who were mass shooters as a result of being incel. The Columbine High School shooters were social outcasts and incels.
It’s a destructive type of depression containing intense inner anger, so they’re usually socially withdrawn in an effort to blend in because of it. Attempted suicide, tendency to violence, and actually killing others are all defining characteristics of it’s endgame …The common thread to these guys seems to be social isolation, so of course by definition they would be incels.
If a big, muscular Chad gets frustrated, he'd probably just punch somebody.
The United States has different cultures than Canada and Australia at large.Show us the daily mass plowings and mass explosions in Canada and Australia.
A culture of mass shootingsThe United States has different cultures than Canada and Australia at large.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Not true. Not sure where you've read your law, but one cannot carry their firearm outside their residence w/o CCP. Since I do not live at 123 Walnut Street, Apt 2, I cannot go to the building carrying a firearm w/o a CCP. Not in CT and definitely not in NJ. NJ may be harder to get than NYC.Irrelevant. Carrying a legal firearm to any property you own does not require a carry permit.
We are talking past each other at this point with semantics. Your desire is to carry a loaded firearm on your person at all times. NJ is a state that require you to prove you have a damn good reason to do that. However, NJ does not prevent civilians legal possession and use of a firearm while hunting, at shooting ranges, at legal place of business, or on land that they own.Not true. Not sure where you've read your law, but one cannot carry their firearm outside their residence w/o CCP. Since I do not live at 123 Walnut Street, Apt 2, I cannot go to the building carrying a firearm w/o a CCP. Not in CT and definitely not in NJ. NJ may be harder to get than NYC.
The reason is for protection of your life. That should be good enough for anyone.NJ is a state that require you to prove you have a damn good reason to do that.
Protection of your life from what?The reason is for protection of your life. That should be good enough for anyone.
Protection of your life from what?
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Per my post above- in my state NJ you are able to legally possess a firearm in one’s place of legal business. If you are in a legal business of mobile transporting large amounts of cash, you should have no problem obtaining a carry permit.I’ve owned a cash business, lived where response times are shyte, and there is no way in hell I’m going to leave my safety in the hands of the Uvalde Popo types.
I can legally carry in 32 states and I will continue to. What most gun control advocates do not understand is that 99% of people who carry rue the day they’d ever have to use their sidearm.
Shut up, EyeB and let the adults talk.Protection of your life from what?
Whatever you say dude. You have no clue, but whatever you say.We are talking past each other at this point with semantics. Your desire is to carry a loaded firearm on your person at all times. NJ is a state that require you to prove you have a damn good reason to do that. However, NJ does not prevent civilians legal possession and use of a firearm while hunting, at shooting ranges, at legal place of business, or on land that they own.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.