"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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How come we don't have BIG muscular chad looking mass shooters?

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Sex = happiness. Most mass shooters are incels. For some, inceldom is a very large motivating factor. George Sodini and Eliot Rodger are two of the bigger names who were mass shooters as a result of being incel. The Columbine High School shooters were social outcasts and incels.
 

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Sex = happiness. Most mass shooters are incels. For some, inceldom is a very large motivating factor. George Sodini and Eliot Rodger are two of the bigger names who were mass shooters as a result of being incel. The Columbine High School shooters were social outcasts and incels.
The worst part is it is largely of their own doing and because of their internal belief system, not reality.
 

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Because that's what guns do. They'll make the tiniest man feel like Goliath. ( see attachment)

It amazes me btw, that most of you guys here live in a country where you might get shot up everyday, yet most men are scared to talk to women. Why dont you guys just go after that you want relentless? Every day another failed product might end your life because of these amazing laws and amendments!
 

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Sex = happiness. Most mass shooters are incels. For some, inceldom is a very large motivating factor. George Sodini and Eliot Rodger are two of the bigger names who were mass shooters as a result of being incel. The Columbine High School shooters were social outcasts and incels.
Actually I think that the belief that sex+money=happiness is part of the problem. That's exactly what Eliot Rodgers believed. He thought that if just one blond bimbo would like him and he won the lottery, his life would be set. And if he couldn't win the lottery and date a blond bimbo, then life was hopeless.

I think the problem is more the frustration that comes from having unrealistic ideals that most people can't achieve. The media and society in general sell sex continuously as the source of all happiness and then people are surprised that men that are not able to live up to this ideal are angry.
 

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Actually I think that the belief that sex+money=happiness is part of the problem. That's exactly what Eliot Rodgers believed. He thought that if just one blond bimbo would like him and he won the lottery, his life would be set. And if he couldn't win the lottery and date a blond bimbo, then life was hopeless.

I think the problem is more the frustration that comes from having unrealistic ideals that most people can't achieve. The media and society in general sell sex continuously as the source of all happiness and then people are surprised that men that are not able to live up to this ideal are angry.
Not even a brunette bimbo, redhead bimbo, or Latina bimbo would pay any attention to him. He was driving around in a solid BMW 3 Series coupe that was less than 5 years old. He thought his BMW would get women to pay attention to him. After all, BMW is supposed to equal Brings Me Women.
 
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Incels are Incels because they are narcissistic sociopaths that failed on a social level. These guys dream of regressing humanity backward so they can have a chance at obtaining power in the new world with their edgelord fantasy mentality. They aren't getting laid because they are bat shvt crazy not because they didn't lift a dumbbell. Good grief yall lol.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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No one takes one into a crowd / gathering / school full of people with an intent other than having the ability to kill the most amount of people possible.
They are also the easiest for a newb to use. Pistols actually take proper training to use accurately and they don’t outgun most communities.
 

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especially an assault rifle lol
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Hoping that was meant to be sarcasm.

A pistol grip doesn’t increase accuracy or deadliness.
A flash supresor doesn’t increase accuracy or deadliness.
A piccatiny raíl doesn’t increase accuracy or deadliness.

This is easily 75% of what is used to define an “assault rifle”.

The AWB IS ABSURD. What we need is mental health care being made accessible- and enforce existing laws not create more imbecilic laws that make absolutely no sense. E.g. non-detachable magazines. Arguably the M1 Garand has been responsible for killing more people that any rifle with a detachable mag.
 

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The AWB IS ABSURD. What we need is mental health care being made accessible- and enforce existing laws not create more imbecilic laws that make absolutely no sense. E.g. non-detachable magazines. Arguably the M1 Garand has been responsible for killing more people that any rifle with a detachable mag.
Irrelevant. Incels can’t shoot up schools if they don’t have access to these weapons. Without the gun they aren’t even getting past a security guard. These aren’t Chads.
 

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Not even a brunette bimbo, redhead bimbo, or Latina bimbo would pay any attention to him. He was driving around in a solid BMW 3 Series coupe that was less than 5 years old. He thought his BMW would get women to pay attention to him. After all, BMW is supposed to equal Brings Me Women.
That's where he went wrong in life. He should have got a Mercedes.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Irrelevant. Incels can’t shoot up schools if they don’t have access to these weapons. Without the gun they aren’t even getting past a security guard. These aren’t Chads.
not irrelevant - I’m highly trained in firearms, given my past - I’m also a gun owner, when someone makes a claim that is inaccurate about firearms it is my responsibility to correct them as such.

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:rolleyes:
Hoping that was meant to be sarcasm.

A pistol grip doesn’t increase accuracy or deadliness.
A flash supresor doesn’t increase accuracy or deadliness.
A piccatiny raíl doesn’t increase accuracy or deadliness.

This is easily 75% of what is used to define an “assault rifle”.

The AWB IS ABSURD. What we need is mental health care being made accessible- and enforce existing laws not create more imbecilic laws that make absolutely no sense. E.g. non-detachable magazines. Arguably the M1 Garand has been responsible for killing more people that any rifle with a detachable mag.
So how will you implement this mental health care agenda? Will it be for the extreme individuals that are an apparent danger to themselves or will it be for anyone that makes a post on the internet deemed questionable on the internet? These guys committing these atrocities can range from a normal guy that just snapped to a kid on an edgelord high on 4chan. Do you want to end up on some mental health list because some woman in DC deemed one of your texts as questionably radical? Rather than make this country resemble an authoritarian CCP state, why not just enact gun safety measures.
 
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not irrelevant - I’m highly trained in firearms, given my past - I’m also a gun owner, when someone makes a claim that is inaccurate about firearms it is my responsibility to correct them as such.

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I don't care what you are lol. Weidling an Assault Rifle is easier to use and shoots more firepower than a fvcking pistol. You being a gun owner does not defy common sense. If your ass is dropped in Luhansk Ukraine right now, are you going to choose a pistol or assault rifle as a weapon?
 

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:rolleyes:
Hoping that was meant to be sarcasm.

A pistol grip doesn’t increase accuracy or deadliness.
A flash supresor doesn’t increase accuracy or deadliness.
A piccatiny raíl doesn’t increase accuracy or deadliness.

This is easily 75% of what is used to define an “assault rifle”.

The AWB IS ABSURD. What we need is mental health care being made accessible- and enforce existing laws not create more imbecilic laws that make absolutely no sense. E.g. non-detachable magazines. Arguably the M1 Garand has been responsible for killing more people that any rifle with a detachable mag.
Can you draw a picture what this mental health care would look like and how this will prevent mass shootings??

Why dont you guys just try to get rid of as many guns as possible?

Yess the "but but criminals have guns " argument. In europe you can call the police and if they only suspect someone has a gun they will send modern day A-team to confiscate the weapon and the whole chain behind the gun( supplier in between guy ect) get arrested. ( best way to fvck somebody over,just tell the cops your neighbor might have a gun and watch how they'll lift him of his bed at 5 in the morning and destroy all of his furniture, walls dig in the garden to find the weapons).

If there are 400 million guns, your governments mission should be to confiscate 350 million guns , and severe penalties to those who illegally own one.

How many more innocent people have to die before you guys wake up???
 

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I don't care what you are lol. Weidling an Assault Rifle is easier to use and shoots more firepower than a fvcking pistol. You being a gun owner does not defy common sense. If your ass is dropped in Luhansk Ukraine right now, are you going to choose a pistol or assault rifle as a weapon?
Spoken like like a Manlet who has never been in combat, bravo.

I’d choose an M14 as my rifle which is NOT an assault weapon, and an m1911 as my sidearm, if I needed a CQB weapon I’d choose a Mossberg 550.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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