She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
The worst part is it is largely of their own doing and because of their internal belief system, not reality.Sex = happiness. Most mass shooters are incels. For some, inceldom is a very large motivating factor. George Sodini and Eliot Rodger are two of the bigger names who were mass shooters as a result of being incel. The Columbine High School shooters were social outcasts and incels.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Actually I think that the belief that sex+money=happiness is part of the problem. That's exactly what Eliot Rodgers believed. He thought that if just one blond bimbo would like him and he won the lottery, his life would be set. And if he couldn't win the lottery and date a blond bimbo, then life was hopeless.Sex = happiness. Most mass shooters are incels. For some, inceldom is a very large motivating factor. George Sodini and Eliot Rodger are two of the bigger names who were mass shooters as a result of being incel. The Columbine High School shooters were social outcasts and incels.
Not even a brunette bimbo, redhead bimbo, or Latina bimbo would pay any attention to him. He was driving around in a solid BMW 3 Series coupe that was less than 5 years old. He thought his BMW would get women to pay attention to him. After all, BMW is supposed to equal Brings Me Women.Actually I think that the belief that sex+money=happiness is part of the problem. That's exactly what Eliot Rodgers believed. He thought that if just one blond bimbo would like him and he won the lottery, his life would be set. And if he couldn't win the lottery and date a blond bimbo, then life was hopeless.
I think the problem is more the frustration that comes from having unrealistic ideals that most people can't achieve. The media and society in general sell sex continuously as the source of all happiness and then people are surprised that men that are not able to live up to this ideal are angry.
This is a silly statement. Out of all the ways to kill a person, gun is the easiest and most efficient, especially at any kind of distance.Guns don't kill people, people kill people.
especially an assault rifle lolThis is a silly statement. Out of all the ways to kill a person, gun is the easiest and most efficient, especially at any kind of ranged distance.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
No one takes one into a crowd / gathering / school full of people with an intent other than having the ability to kill the most amount of people possible.especially an assault rifle lol
They are also the easiest for a newb to use. Pistols actually take proper training to use accurately and they don’t outgun most communities.No one takes one into a crowd / gathering / school full of people with an intent other than having the ability to kill the most amount of people possible.
especially an assault rifle lol
Irrelevant. Incels can’t shoot up schools if they don’t have access to these weapons. Without the gun they aren’t even getting past a security guard. These aren’t Chads.The AWB IS ABSURD. What we need is mental health care being made accessible- and enforce existing laws not create more imbecilic laws that make absolutely no sense. E.g. non-detachable magazines. Arguably the M1 Garand has been responsible for killing more people that any rifle with a detachable mag.
That's where he went wrong in life. He should have got a Mercedes.Not even a brunette bimbo, redhead bimbo, or Latina bimbo would pay any attention to him. He was driving around in a solid BMW 3 Series coupe that was less than 5 years old. He thought his BMW would get women to pay attention to him. After all, BMW is supposed to equal Brings Me Women.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
not irrelevant - I’m highly trained in firearms, given my past - I’m also a gun owner, when someone makes a claim that is inaccurate about firearms it is my responsibility to correct them as such.Irrelevant. Incels can’t shoot up schools if they don’t have access to these weapons. Without the gun they aren’t even getting past a security guard. These aren’t Chads.
So how will you implement this mental health care agenda? Will it be for the extreme individuals that are an apparent danger to themselves or will it be for anyone that makes a post on the internet deemed questionable on the internet? These guys committing these atrocities can range from a normal guy that just snapped to a kid on an edgelord high on 4chan. Do you want to end up on some mental health list because some woman in DC deemed one of your texts as questionably radical? Rather than make this country resemble an authoritarian CCP state, why not just enact gun safety measures.
Hoping that was meant to be sarcasm.
A pistol grip doesn’t increase accuracy or deadliness.
A flash supresor doesn’t increase accuracy or deadliness.
A piccatiny raíl doesn’t increase accuracy or deadliness.
This is easily 75% of what is used to define an “assault rifle”.
The AWB IS ABSURD. What we need is mental health care being made accessible- and enforce existing laws not create more imbecilic laws that make absolutely no sense. E.g. non-detachable magazines. Arguably the M1 Garand has been responsible for killing more people that any rifle with a detachable mag.
I don't care what you are lol. Weidling an Assault Rifle is easier to use and shoots more firepower than a fvcking pistol. You being a gun owner does not defy common sense. If your ass is dropped in Luhansk Ukraine right now, are you going to choose a pistol or assault rifle as a weapon?not irrelevant - I’m highly trained in firearms, given my past - I’m also a gun owner, when someone makes a claim that is inaccurate about firearms it is my responsibility to correct them as such.
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Can you draw a picture what this mental health care would look like and how this will prevent mass shootings??
Hoping that was meant to be sarcasm.
A pistol grip doesn’t increase accuracy or deadliness.
A flash supresor doesn’t increase accuracy or deadliness.
A piccatiny raíl doesn’t increase accuracy or deadliness.
This is easily 75% of what is used to define an “assault rifle”.
The AWB IS ABSURD. What we need is mental health care being made accessible- and enforce existing laws not create more imbecilic laws that make absolutely no sense. E.g. non-detachable magazines. Arguably the M1 Garand has been responsible for killing more people that any rifle with a detachable mag.
Spoken like like a Manlet who has never been in combat, bravo.I don't care what you are lol. Weidling an Assault Rifle is easier to use and shoots more firepower than a fvcking pistol. You being a gun owner does not defy common sense. If your ass is dropped in Luhansk Ukraine right now, are you going to choose a pistol or assault rifle as a weapon?
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.