You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
The worst part is it is largely of their own doing and because of their internal belief system, not reality.Sex = happiness. Most mass shooters are incels. For some, inceldom is a very large motivating factor. George Sodini and Eliot Rodger are two of the bigger names who were mass shooters as a result of being incel. The Columbine High School shooters were social outcasts and incels.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Actually I think that the belief that sex+money=happiness is part of the problem. That's exactly what Eliot Rodgers believed. He thought that if just one blond bimbo would like him and he won the lottery, his life would be set. And if he couldn't win the lottery and date a blond bimbo, then life was hopeless.Sex = happiness. Most mass shooters are incels. For some, inceldom is a very large motivating factor. George Sodini and Eliot Rodger are two of the bigger names who were mass shooters as a result of being incel. The Columbine High School shooters were social outcasts and incels.
Not even a brunette bimbo, redhead bimbo, or Latina bimbo would pay any attention to him. He was driving around in a solid BMW 3 Series coupe that was less than 5 years old. He thought his BMW would get women to pay attention to him. After all, BMW is supposed to equal Brings Me Women.Actually I think that the belief that sex+money=happiness is part of the problem. That's exactly what Eliot Rodgers believed. He thought that if just one blond bimbo would like him and he won the lottery, his life would be set. And if he couldn't win the lottery and date a blond bimbo, then life was hopeless.
I think the problem is more the frustration that comes from having unrealistic ideals that most people can't achieve. The media and society in general sell sex continuously as the source of all happiness and then people are surprised that men that are not able to live up to this ideal are angry.
This is a silly statement. Out of all the ways to kill a person, gun is the easiest and most efficient, especially at any kind of distance.Guns don't kill people, people kill people.
especially an assault rifle lolThis is a silly statement. Out of all the ways to kill a person, gun is the easiest and most efficient, especially at any kind of ranged distance.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
No one takes one into a crowd / gathering / school full of people with an intent other than having the ability to kill the most amount of people possible.especially an assault rifle lol
They are also the easiest for a newb to use. Pistols actually take proper training to use accurately and they don’t outgun most communities.No one takes one into a crowd / gathering / school full of people with an intent other than having the ability to kill the most amount of people possible.
especially an assault rifle lol
Irrelevant. Incels can’t shoot up schools if they don’t have access to these weapons. Without the gun they aren’t even getting past a security guard. These aren’t Chads.The AWB IS ABSURD. What we need is mental health care being made accessible- and enforce existing laws not create more imbecilic laws that make absolutely no sense. E.g. non-detachable magazines. Arguably the M1 Garand has been responsible for killing more people that any rifle with a detachable mag.
That's where he went wrong in life. He should have got a Mercedes.Not even a brunette bimbo, redhead bimbo, or Latina bimbo would pay any attention to him. He was driving around in a solid BMW 3 Series coupe that was less than 5 years old. He thought his BMW would get women to pay attention to him. After all, BMW is supposed to equal Brings Me Women.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
not irrelevant - I’m highly trained in firearms, given my past - I’m also a gun owner, when someone makes a claim that is inaccurate about firearms it is my responsibility to correct them as such.Irrelevant. Incels can’t shoot up schools if they don’t have access to these weapons. Without the gun they aren’t even getting past a security guard. These aren’t Chads.
So how will you implement this mental health care agenda? Will it be for the extreme individuals that are an apparent danger to themselves or will it be for anyone that makes a post on the internet deemed questionable on the internet? These guys committing these atrocities can range from a normal guy that just snapped to a kid on an edgelord high on 4chan. Do you want to end up on some mental health list because some woman in DC deemed one of your texts as questionably radical? Rather than make this country resemble an authoritarian CCP state, why not just enact gun safety measures.
Hoping that was meant to be sarcasm.
A pistol grip doesn’t increase accuracy or deadliness.
A flash supresor doesn’t increase accuracy or deadliness.
A piccatiny raíl doesn’t increase accuracy or deadliness.
This is easily 75% of what is used to define an “assault rifle”.
The AWB IS ABSURD. What we need is mental health care being made accessible- and enforce existing laws not create more imbecilic laws that make absolutely no sense. E.g. non-detachable magazines. Arguably the M1 Garand has been responsible for killing more people that any rifle with a detachable mag.
I don't care what you are lol. Weidling an Assault Rifle is easier to use and shoots more firepower than a fvcking pistol. You being a gun owner does not defy common sense. If your ass is dropped in Luhansk Ukraine right now, are you going to choose a pistol or assault rifle as a weapon?not irrelevant - I’m highly trained in firearms, given my past - I’m also a gun owner, when someone makes a claim that is inaccurate about firearms it is my responsibility to correct them as such.
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Can you draw a picture what this mental health care would look like and how this will prevent mass shootings??
Hoping that was meant to be sarcasm.
A pistol grip doesn’t increase accuracy or deadliness.
A flash supresor doesn’t increase accuracy or deadliness.
A piccatiny raíl doesn’t increase accuracy or deadliness.
This is easily 75% of what is used to define an “assault rifle”.
The AWB IS ABSURD. What we need is mental health care being made accessible- and enforce existing laws not create more imbecilic laws that make absolutely no sense. E.g. non-detachable magazines. Arguably the M1 Garand has been responsible for killing more people that any rifle with a detachable mag.
Spoken like like a Manlet who has never been in combat, bravo.I don't care what you are lol. Weidling an Assault Rifle is easier to use and shoots more firepower than a fvcking pistol. You being a gun owner does not defy common sense. If your ass is dropped in Luhansk Ukraine right now, are you going to choose a pistol or assault rifle as a weapon?
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.