"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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How close of a cousin would you consider macking?

MatureDJ

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Yes, I understand there is a creep factor here, LOL. :eek: :eek: :eek::eek:

What incentivized me to post is that I was looking at my Ancestry.com page and went through a bunch of cousins (i.e., distant enough so that I have never met them), and one gal caught my eye with her very nice rack (one that was prominently shown in her pic, like she was an attention hoar on Twitter). :eek::eek::eek::eek: Based on her age and name (she has the same last name as my paternal grandmother), she probably is a 2nd cousin once removed.

I should also say that a lot of my ancestors lived in some very sparsely populated areas, and they certainly had no problem kissing their cousins. :eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek:

I wonder how to carefully dialog the situation so as to show sexual interest. I was thinking about complementing these gals' looks with something like "it runs in our family". :eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek: Family reunion game seems to be a topic that doesn't seem to get discussed much in the PUA community.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Unless your from pakistan or some arab country I'm pretty sure dating your cousin is illegal
 

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Unless your from pakistan or some arab country I'm pretty sure dating your cousin is illegal
In the USA, there is no restriction on a pair of adult relatives getting it on :eek: :eek: - only restrictions to marry, with 2nd cousins being allowed in all states, and 1st cousins being allowed in a few (half 1st cousins & 1st cousins once removed being in between). I wouldn't mack anything less than 2nd cousins. :eek:
 

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Yes, I understand there is a creep factor here, LOL. :eek: :eek: :eek::eek:

What incentivized me to post is that I was looking at my Ancestry.com page and went through a bunch of cousins (i.e., distant enough so that I have never met them), and one gal caught my eye with her very nice rack (one that was prominently shown in her pic, like she was an attention hoar on Twitter). :eek::eek::eek::eek: Based on her age and name (she has the same last name as my paternal grandmother), she probably is a 2nd cousin once removed.

I should also say that a lot of my ancestors lived in some very sparsely populated areas, and they certainly had no problem kissing their cousins. :eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek:

I wonder how to carefully dialog the situation so as to show sexual interest. I was thinking about complementing these gals' looks with something like "it runs in our family". :eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek: Family reunion game seems to be a topic that doesn't seem to get discussed much in the PUA community.
Not in my dreams at all, good luck how your kids will look like.
 

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In the USA, there is no restriction on a pair of adult relatives getting it on :eek: :eek: - only restrictions to marry, with 2nd cousins being allowed in all states, and 1st cousins being allowed in a few (half 1st cousins & 1st cousins once removed being in between). I wouldn't mack anything less than 2nd cousins. :eek:
There are millions of women in the world, and yet you choose your relatives.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Ayo @MatureDJ check out Genetic Sexual Attraction on youtube...... You might be able to run GSA game on a distant cousin...
 

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I would totally bang any hot female relative I have but I'd never make the first move and risk a bad family situation.
 

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I often tell you guys I’m the hillbilly of SS. I do not fit the profile career, lifestyle, and education wise. If you saw me you would think redneck but not hillbilly. But I’ll let ya all in on a little secret. I fooled around with my third cousins in my younger years. And if one of them hotties knocked on my door today i could rail her now with no regrets.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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