"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How close of a cousin would you consider macking?

MatureDJ

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Yes, I understand there is a creep factor here, LOL. :eek: :eek: :eek::eek:

What incentivized me to post is that I was looking at my Ancestry.com page and went through a bunch of cousins (i.e., distant enough so that I have never met them), and one gal caught my eye with her very nice rack (one that was prominently shown in her pic, like she was an attention hoar on Twitter). :eek::eek::eek::eek: Based on her age and name (she has the same last name as my paternal grandmother), she probably is a 2nd cousin once removed.

I should also say that a lot of my ancestors lived in some very sparsely populated areas, and they certainly had no problem kissing their cousins. :eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek:

I wonder how to carefully dialog the situation so as to show sexual interest. I was thinking about complementing these gals' looks with something like "it runs in our family". :eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek: Family reunion game seems to be a topic that doesn't seem to get discussed much in the PUA community.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Unless your from pakistan or some arab country I'm pretty sure dating your cousin is illegal
 

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Unless your from pakistan or some arab country I'm pretty sure dating your cousin is illegal
In the USA, there is no restriction on a pair of adult relatives getting it on :eek: :eek: - only restrictions to marry, with 2nd cousins being allowed in all states, and 1st cousins being allowed in a few (half 1st cousins & 1st cousins once removed being in between). I wouldn't mack anything less than 2nd cousins. :eek:
 

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Yes, I understand there is a creep factor here, LOL. :eek: :eek: :eek::eek:

What incentivized me to post is that I was looking at my Ancestry.com page and went through a bunch of cousins (i.e., distant enough so that I have never met them), and one gal caught my eye with her very nice rack (one that was prominently shown in her pic, like she was an attention hoar on Twitter). :eek::eek::eek::eek: Based on her age and name (she has the same last name as my paternal grandmother), she probably is a 2nd cousin once removed.

I should also say that a lot of my ancestors lived in some very sparsely populated areas, and they certainly had no problem kissing their cousins. :eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek:

I wonder how to carefully dialog the situation so as to show sexual interest. I was thinking about complementing these gals' looks with something like "it runs in our family". :eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek: Family reunion game seems to be a topic that doesn't seem to get discussed much in the PUA community.
Not in my dreams at all, good luck how your kids will look like.
 

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In the USA, there is no restriction on a pair of adult relatives getting it on :eek: :eek: - only restrictions to marry, with 2nd cousins being allowed in all states, and 1st cousins being allowed in a few (half 1st cousins & 1st cousins once removed being in between). I wouldn't mack anything less than 2nd cousins. :eek:
There are millions of women in the world, and yet you choose your relatives.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Ayo @MatureDJ check out Genetic Sexual Attraction on youtube...... You might be able to run GSA game on a distant cousin...
 

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I would totally bang any hot female relative I have but I'd never make the first move and risk a bad family situation.
 

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I often tell you guys I’m the hillbilly of SS. I do not fit the profile career, lifestyle, and education wise. If you saw me you would think redneck but not hillbilly. But I’ll let ya all in on a little secret. I fooled around with my third cousins in my younger years. And if one of them hotties knocked on my door today i could rail her now with no regrets.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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