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How can you have game without the right lifestyle?

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He may be average, but he is sexually dimoprhic.

Very tall. Very wide shoulder-framed. And most importantly of all. White. Sure he has game to cap it off, but they are really sub-factors, which of course he wouldn't be able to operate without, but sub-factors all-the-same. If you deny that you're not at all based.

Ontop of this, these are outlier examples. Ontop of this I am in London. Britain is a much more uptight nation than the extroverted USA.
Yeah looking at homeless people in the UK I'm struggling to see how they could get laid with anyone who also isn't homeless or a 2/10 .

Maybe a higher standard of homeless people I'm the US.

Mind you, maybe that's just because they look obviously homeless: weather beaten, scruffy, alcoholic or class a drug addict look etc generally wretched.

Maybe the normal looking ones don't register as homeless.
 
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I'm not salty. Credit to him, but don't deny his sexual market value is high.

6'4. Broad-shouldered and caucasian. He has a lot of margin for error.
This. I think guys downplay how much physical frame matters. As a shorter, genetically ectomorphic guy, I didn’t realize how much frame helps until I packed on muscle. It’s like night and day. Some guys are naturally broad shouldered (Lucky).

Also, height matters. It’s not a super hindrance to be short, but it is a huge huge benefit to be 6’-6’5.
 

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This is a very important question.

If your lifestyle is plain, routine and tedious, how in any possible world is it viable for you to run game? You have very little material to work off and any material that you will use, will therefore sound cliche to the girl, who will subsequently now disqualify you. Even as a decent 6-7/10.
IRRELEVANT!

COMPLY OR BYE!

Every cuckold is fronting with a Lamborghini rented and some other shtick. McGregor just got punched out by a guy who couldn't last 90secs with him.

Fellas get lazy with too much puss and money. Stay HUNGRY. I can approach 100 girls, pull 1 and that's a W.

You could be born rich, good looking, if blue check, and life on easy mode. It's not been this way for most of us. Hard times make strong men.

We're in HARD TIMES. lift. do calisthenics. Fast. approach. Stretch. meditate. pray. read. start a biz. Do SOMETHING.

Play your hand. whatever it is. aim high. Stay hungry.
 

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There are literally homeless dudes that get hot, well off women to let them move in with them almost immediately. Once you see this type of thing happen in real life you realize that any types of reasons like you want to bring up that seem logical are simply excuses people fool themselves into believing that end up holding them back.

The real truth is, if you can make a woman feel more amazing than she ever has before none of that matters.
@EyeBRollin should take note of this. IF you believe you have to be a CEO of a company in order to stand out to get women, and that's the "big picture", then its things like this example which blow those ideas out of the water.

Then one might say this is a chad homeless guy who choose a bohemian lifestyle (to preserve the blackpill narrative) and is not a true homeless/low SMV person.
 

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@EyeBRollin should take note of this. IF you believe you have to be a CEO of a company in order to stand out to get women, and that's the "big picture", then its things like this example which blow those ideas out of the water.

Then one might say this is a chad homeless guy who choose a bohemian lifestyle (to preserve the blackpill narrative) and is not a true homeless/low SMV person.
Looks alone isn’t getting him lays. Guy clearly has grown man game. He ain’t keeping them chicks tho
 

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It's what nobody wants to admit to themselves...that guys that look the same as them or maybe worse with them can be killing it while they can't get laid...their ego forces them to assume the guy has every advantage they don't rather than trying to figure out how he does it and then trying to replicate it.
Attitude and mindset
 

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He said if he fvcks them good he's gonna stay in her house for some time aka free food and roof. Plus he earns 150 bucks just by panhandling.
Seems a bit odd that he earns that but doesn't rent anywhere. Maybe he spends it all on drugs.
 

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Seems a bit odd that he earns that but doesn't rent anywhere. Maybe he spends it all on drugs.
Maybe it goes to a registered retirement savings plan. We shouldn't judge people like that.
 

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Maybe it goes to a registered retirement savings plan. We shouldn't judge people like that.
Indeed, but you'd think a roof over your head is a priority for safety, quality of life etc above that... unless he gets laid every night.
 

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I see no issue here. I feel like 95% of guys (semi responsible guys) life is work, home, gym and a few hours for whatever hobby in the evenings be it reading, gaming, building stuff or whatever. I’m sure most men on the forum could attest.

Being considered “boring” would have more to do with how you interact with them rather than how your daily work week is structured. Don’t be a Debbie downer, and be flirty and fun when your with them.
 

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I see no issue here. I feel like 95% of guys (semi responsible guys) life is work, home, gym and a few hours for whatever hobby in the evenings be it reading, gaming, building stuff or whatever. I’m sure most men on the forum could attest.

Being considered “boring” would have more to do with how you interact with them rather than how your daily work week is structured. Don’t be a Debbie downer, and be flirty and fun when your with them.
I actually have a decent sense of humour and am fun, but it's material that I am lacking with.

Which stems from having things in common with the girl. "Well find a girl you have things in common with". Yeah, those are generally the long term relationship types. For hooking up is what we're aiming at here.
 

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I see no issue here. I feel like 95% of guys (semi responsible guys) life is work, home, gym and a few hours for whatever hobby in the evenings be it reading, gaming, building stuff or whatever. I’m sure most men on the forum could attest.

Being considered “boring” would have more to do with how you interact with them rather than how your daily work week is structured. Don’t be a Debbie downer, and be flirty and fun when your with them.
part of my life is work. at work we see chicks. my co worker came back to the truck and said hey look at the tits on that. I was on the phone to my isp and they heard my conversation.

gym theres also chicks to look at. i look at their asses and tits. and into their eyes. some smile.

I go to clubs 4 nights a week. Look at chicks asses and tits. look into their eyes. some chicks ask if im gay to hook me up with their gay friends. some gay guys ask if im straight to hook me up with their friend whos a girl.

I watch porn and try and look for girls in porn who look like girls i see out at places. Jerked of 4 times today and went to the supermarket and saw 4 milfs or gilfs look at me when i was looking at them. Some women wanna bang others don't. don't harrass the ones that don't.

just go out. that homeless guy is going out. fark hes out all the time in the businest city in the world. of course hes going to bang a ton. you could do the same if you were a 5 foot 6 ethic. just get around women.
 

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I actually have a decent sense of humour and am fun, but it's material that I am lacking with.

Which stems from having things in common with the girl. "Well find a girl you have things in common with". Yeah, those are generally the long term relationship types. For hooking up is what we're aiming at here.
How good are you at telling stories? Do you have 5 or 6 stories you can tell a woman to demonstrate different things without actually saying it to them? One of the things that helps me the most and gets women to see me in a fun, exciting way without me having to really do anything.
 
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