“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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How Can I Turn Her Down Without Bad Side Effects???

Bigtrucker2008

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Ok, there's a girl who really likes me and wants to go to the prom with me. I don't really want to go with her. She's nice and very popular, but i just don't like her like that. But I don't want to hurt her feelings or make it seem like I'm being mean or have my reputation destroyed by turning her down.

My question is what is the best way to turn her down without having any bad side effects????
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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rkc09

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I have the same exact situation I'm dealing with. Someone please give us an answer.
 

Bonafide

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Man up and reject the *****. It's life...you win some you lose some. Tell her NO...simple. Dont beat around the bush...and what "rep" are you talking about...How is your reputation affected due to you rejecting a girl? would you rather go with her and not enjoy your time...or would you rather go with osmeone you actually like and have a great time? if u go with her you will look back like damn I went with this girl when I could of went with *hb who you really liked* and had a great time...
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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smoothtalker72

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or you could go with her but make it known beforehand that you have no romantic interest in her
 

SinJester

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Give her the LJBF speach. *laughs evily*

But seriously.
 
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