"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How Can I Turn Her Down Without Bad Side Effects???

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Bigtrucker2008

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Ok, there's a girl who really likes me and wants to go to the prom with me. I don't really want to go with her. She's nice and very popular, but i just don't like her like that. But I don't want to hurt her feelings or make it seem like I'm being mean or have my reputation destroyed by turning her down.

My question is what is the best way to turn her down without having any bad side effects????
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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rkc09

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I have the same exact situation I'm dealing with. Someone please give us an answer.
 
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Bonafide

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Man up and reject the *****. It's life...you win some you lose some. Tell her NO...simple. Dont beat around the bush...and what "rep" are you talking about...How is your reputation affected due to you rejecting a girl? would you rather go with her and not enjoy your time...or would you rather go with osmeone you actually like and have a great time? if u go with her you will look back like damn I went with this girl when I could of went with *hb who you really liked* and had a great time...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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smoothtalker72

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or you could go with her but make it known beforehand that you have no romantic interest in her
 
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Give her the LJBF speach. *laughs evily*

But seriously.
 
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