"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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How Can I Turn Her Down Without Bad Side Effects???

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Bigtrucker2008

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Ok, there's a girl who really likes me and wants to go to the prom with me. I don't really want to go with her. She's nice and very popular, but i just don't like her like that. But I don't want to hurt her feelings or make it seem like I'm being mean or have my reputation destroyed by turning her down.

My question is what is the best way to turn her down without having any bad side effects????
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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rkc09

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I have the same exact situation I'm dealing with. Someone please give us an answer.
 
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Bonafide

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Man up and reject the *****. It's life...you win some you lose some. Tell her NO...simple. Dont beat around the bush...and what "rep" are you talking about...How is your reputation affected due to you rejecting a girl? would you rather go with her and not enjoy your time...or would you rather go with osmeone you actually like and have a great time? if u go with her you will look back like damn I went with this girl when I could of went with *hb who you really liked* and had a great time...
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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smoothtalker72

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or you could go with her but make it known beforehand that you have no romantic interest in her
 
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SinJester

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Give her the LJBF speach. *laughs evily*

But seriously.
 
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