"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How Can I Turn Her Down Without Bad Side Effects???

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Bigtrucker2008

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Ok, there's a girl who really likes me and wants to go to the prom with me. I don't really want to go with her. She's nice and very popular, but i just don't like her like that. But I don't want to hurt her feelings or make it seem like I'm being mean or have my reputation destroyed by turning her down.

My question is what is the best way to turn her down without having any bad side effects????
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I have the same exact situation I'm dealing with. Someone please give us an answer.
 
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Bonafide

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Man up and reject the *****. It's life...you win some you lose some. Tell her NO...simple. Dont beat around the bush...and what "rep" are you talking about...How is your reputation affected due to you rejecting a girl? would you rather go with her and not enjoy your time...or would you rather go with osmeone you actually like and have a great time? if u go with her you will look back like damn I went with this girl when I could of went with *hb who you really liked* and had a great time...
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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smoothtalker72

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or you could go with her but make it known beforehand that you have no romantic interest in her
 
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SinJester

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Give her the LJBF speach. *laughs evily*

But seriously.
 
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