"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How Can I Like Her Less??

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Bible_Belt said:
You only want her so badly because you can't have her.
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see?

The same phenomenon will help to manage your other unfulfilled desires in life. Everything you think you want also carries with it disadvantages, but you can't see the down side. Thus, what you don't have seems perfect.

There's an old saying, 'No matter how good looking she is, somebody somewhere is sick of her sh!t.' I girl I'm seeing is a hb9 and great to look at, all the guys drool over her whenever we got out. But unfortunately, she's a crazy b!tch and I'm about to dump her. I am that guy somewhere who is sick of her sh!t. Things are not always as they appear; don't romanticize what you don't have just because you don't have it.
 
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Yeah, "Bible_belt" guy, what your saying is ALL so true. So true. Only thing is technically, we're still not going out, we just sex.

Oh yeah, and to the guy PrinceBeavis: :crackup:, I guess you think your a big man now, editing your post to say "jerk". I guess I'm suppose to feel bad? I guess you "one-up'd" me? :crackup:, You need a Don Juan website like this, dude, believe it.
 
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You need this place just as much as me...if not more, else why are you here?
I'm not the one saying "I don't want to get hurt," and I'm not the one asking the other's permission to eat pvssy...or to lie to the woman, and tell her you're going to do it, just to get into her pants, like you did on your other thread.


But you know what?.....I'm not here to flame with you. I'm here to learn, grow, help if I can, and improve, So take your smilies elsewhere.
 
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Wow. I'm glad I actually came back to this website and found this old post. It makes me feel good to see that someone would take the time out to go and look up my posts.....:yawn: ....BUT: The thing is, when you "mis-quote" others and only quote them partially to make them look like something they are not, it makes you look bad PrinceBeavis. Makes you kinda look like........dare I say it........a hater. And essentially............pathetic. Which paints a bad picture to everyone of your true, real-life self.

When has asking for "opinions" of a topic that arose among other people been considered asking for others "permission"??? Since when has it been wrong to say that "would don't wanna give someone your heart and be hurt" like a chump??? I mean, WHO would want to play that chump role?

Looks like someone needs to dig a hole.........and bury themself.:D
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Bigtrucker2008 said:
My reason for this is that I don't want to get hurt for letting her have my heart. I was hurt long ago, and it made me into a "player". I've gotten with all kinds of various chicks(some at the same time) and they meant nothing to me but another notch in my belt. But now, I don't know what to do, cuz I really like her and she likes me, but I don't want to get hurt.
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As soon as you think "I don't want get hurt", you are entering into AFC terrority. You have to live your life as best you can and as full as possible and she can come along for the ride if she wishes. If you don't live your life as full as and as best as possible and be happy with who you are and come to terms with yourself, you will start supplicating and become an AFC.

Don't think "I don't want to get hurt." Think: "I'm going to be the best I can be and I'm happy to have this girl do the things with me."
 
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Bigtrucker2008 said:
Ok, this girl and I both really like each other. We don't call ourselves officially "boyfriend and girlfriend", but we do things that couples do (except have sex, which is awkward for me because normally I don't get in situations like this).
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Stopped reading there. She doesn't want to have sex with you? Move on man.
 
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