How Can I Like Her Less??

[PrinceBeavis]

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[Bible_Belt]

You only want her so badly because you can't have her.

see?

The same phenomenon will help to manage your other unfulfilled desires in life. Everything you think you want also carries with it disadvantages, but you can't see the down side. Thus, what you don't have seems perfect.

There's an old saying, 'No matter how good looking she is, somebody somewhere is sick of her sh!t.' I girl I'm seeing is a hb9 and great to look at, all the guys drool over her whenever we got out. But unfortunately, she's a crazy b!tch and I'm about to dump her. I am that guy somewhere who is sick of her sh!t. Things are not always as they appear; don't romanticize what you don't have just because you don't have it.

 

[Bigtrucker2008]

Yeah, "Bible_belt" guy, what your saying is ALL so true. So true. Only thing is technically, we're still not going out, we just sex.

Oh yeah, and to the guy PrinceBeavis: :crackup:, I guess you think your a big man now, editing your post to say "jerk". I guess I'm suppose to feel bad? I guess you "one-up'd" me? :crackup:, You need a Don Juan website like this, dude, believe it.

 

[PrinceBeavis]

You need this place just as much as me...if not more, else why are you here?
I'm not the one saying "I don't want to get hurt," and I'm not the one asking the other's permission to eat pvssy...or to lie to the woman, and tell her you're going to do it, just to get into her pants, like you did on your other thread.


But you know what?.....I'm not here to flame with you. I'm here to learn, grow, help if I can, and improve, So take your smilies elsewhere.

 

[Bigtrucker2008]

Wow. I'm glad I actually came back to this website and found this old post. It makes me feel good to see that someone would take the time out to go and look up my posts.....:yawn: ....BUT: The thing is, when you "mis-quote" others and only quote them partially to make them look like something they are not, it makes you look bad PrinceBeavis. Makes you kinda look like........dare I say it........a hater. And essentially............pathetic. Which paints a bad picture to everyone of your true, real-life self.

When has asking for "opinions" of a topic that arose among other people been considered asking for others "permission"??? Since when has it been wrong to say that "would don't wanna give someone your heart and be hurt" like a chump??? I mean, WHO would want to play that chump role?

Looks like someone needs to dig a hole.........and bury themself.

 

[DonJuan11]

My reason for this is that I don't want to get hurt for letting her have my heart. I was hurt long ago, and it made me into a "player". I've gotten with all kinds of various chicks(some at the same time) and they meant nothing to me but another notch in my belt. But now, I don't know what to do, cuz I really like her and she likes me, but I don't want to get hurt.

As soon as you think "I don't want get hurt", you are entering into AFC terrority. You have to live your life as best you can and as full as possible and she can come along for the ride if she wishes. If you don't live your life as full as and as best as possible and be happy with who you are and come to terms with yourself, you will start supplicating and become an AFC.

Don't think "I don't want to get hurt." Think: "I'm going to be the best I can be and I'm happy to have this girl do the things with me."

 

[Vlad the Impaler]

Ok, this girl and I both really like each other. We don't call ourselves officially "boyfriend and girlfriend", but we do things that couples do (except have sex, which is awkward for me because normally I don't get in situations like this).

Stopped reading there. She doesn't want to have sex with you? Move on man.