BannedGod
Senior Don Juan
Say I am in the friend zone with this girl... Just for the hell of it, Id like to try to leave it and get her interest in me spiked up... How can I do that? you guys got any suggestions / articles to read / guidelines?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
How can I leave friend zone (I want to try for fun)
- Thread starter BannedGod
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
GloriouslyInsane
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To me there are only two paths you can take,escalate from where you stand (not recommended) or disappear for a couple months,improve yourself (being seen with multiple girls by her is preferable) and then get back to her and act as if you're starting from 0 and escalate until she stops you/bang her.You know what they say,make the ho say no 
Agree with GloriouslyInsane
of course, when you return after a couple of months.....you have to make sure you are DJ material.....or you're right back in the friendzone....
I have to say, a couple of months might be aggressive.....I would think you may need longer than that.
Fed
of course, when you return after a couple of months.....you have to make sure you are DJ material.....or you're right back in the friendzone....
I have to say, a couple of months might be aggressive.....I would think you may need longer than that.
Fed
Mind_Body_Soul
Senior Don Juan
Yep. Best way is to forget she even exists.
BannedGod
Senior Don Juan
Well shes a great friend so I dont want to disappear for a few months.. I just want to try for the hell of it because Im bored and I see her often.
LOL @ Mind Body Soul's quote
LOL @ Mind Body Soul's quote
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Danny1729
Don Juan
Hey,i tried a BIG mission with my ex gf's best friend,who had me friendzoned cause of my ex.. and i tried for like 4 months man lol,tried everything you could imagine.. did ok,never kissed on the lips.. but it ended up screwing our friendship alot of times,best to leave it till the situation comes right i reckon..
the spiking up interest stuff kinda worked,had her thinking about me.. but not in the "liking" way,more of "whats he playing at??"
if ya know what i mean,anyways good luck
the spiking up interest stuff kinda worked,had her thinking about me.. but not in the "liking" way,more of "whats he playing at??"
if ya know what i mean,anyways good luck