BannedGod
Senior Don Juan
Say I am in the friend zone with this girl... Just for the hell of it, Id like to try to leave it and get her interest in me spiked up... How can I do that? you guys got any suggestions / articles to read / guidelines?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
How can I leave friend zone (I want to try for fun)
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
GloriouslyInsane
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To me there are only two paths you can take,escalate from where you stand (not recommended) or disappear for a couple months,improve yourself (being seen with multiple girls by her is preferable) and then get back to her and act as if you're starting from 0 and escalate until she stops you/bang her.You know what they say,make the ho say no 
Agree with GloriouslyInsane
of course, when you return after a couple of months.....you have to make sure you are DJ material.....or you're right back in the friendzone....
I have to say, a couple of months might be aggressive.....I would think you may need longer than that.
Fed
of course, when you return after a couple of months.....you have to make sure you are DJ material.....or you're right back in the friendzone....
I have to say, a couple of months might be aggressive.....I would think you may need longer than that.
Fed
Mind_Body_Soul
Senior Don Juan
Yep. Best way is to forget she even exists.
BannedGod
Senior Don Juan
Well shes a great friend so I dont want to disappear for a few months.. I just want to try for the hell of it because Im bored and I see her often.
LOL @ Mind Body Soul's quote
LOL @ Mind Body Soul's quote
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Danny1729
Don Juan
Hey,i tried a BIG mission with my ex gf's best friend,who had me friendzoned cause of my ex.. and i tried for like 4 months man lol,tried everything you could imagine.. did ok,never kissed on the lips.. but it ended up screwing our friendship alot of times,best to leave it till the situation comes right i reckon..
the spiking up interest stuff kinda worked,had her thinking about me.. but not in the "liking" way,more of "whats he playing at??"
if ya know what i mean,anyways good luck
the spiking up interest stuff kinda worked,had her thinking about me.. but not in the "liking" way,more of "whats he playing at??"
if ya know what i mean,anyways good luck