BannedGod
Senior Don Juan
Say I am in the friend zone with this girl... Just for the hell of it, Id like to try to leave it and get her interest in me spiked up... How can I do that? you guys got any suggestions / articles to read / guidelines?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
How can I leave friend zone (I want to try for fun)
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
GloriouslyInsane
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To me there are only two paths you can take,escalate from where you stand (not recommended) or disappear for a couple months,improve yourself (being seen with multiple girls by her is preferable) and then get back to her and act as if you're starting from 0 and escalate until she stops you/bang her.You know what they say,make the ho say no 
Agree with GloriouslyInsane
of course, when you return after a couple of months.....you have to make sure you are DJ material.....or you're right back in the friendzone....
I have to say, a couple of months might be aggressive.....I would think you may need longer than that.
Fed
of course, when you return after a couple of months.....you have to make sure you are DJ material.....or you're right back in the friendzone....
I have to say, a couple of months might be aggressive.....I would think you may need longer than that.
Fed
Mind_Body_Soul
Senior Don Juan
Yep. Best way is to forget she even exists.
BannedGod
Senior Don Juan
Well shes a great friend so I dont want to disappear for a few months.. I just want to try for the hell of it because Im bored and I see her often.
LOL @ Mind Body Soul's quote
LOL @ Mind Body Soul's quote
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Danny1729
Don Juan
Hey,i tried a BIG mission with my ex gf's best friend,who had me friendzoned cause of my ex.. and i tried for like 4 months man lol,tried everything you could imagine.. did ok,never kissed on the lips.. but it ended up screwing our friendship alot of times,best to leave it till the situation comes right i reckon..
the spiking up interest stuff kinda worked,had her thinking about me.. but not in the "liking" way,more of "whats he playing at??"
if ya know what i mean,anyways good luck
the spiking up interest stuff kinda worked,had her thinking about me.. but not in the "liking" way,more of "whats he playing at??"
if ya know what i mean,anyways good luck