"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How can I leave friend zone (I want to try for fun)

BannedGod

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Say I am in the friend zone with this girl... Just for the hell of it, Id like to try to leave it and get her interest in me spiked up... How can I do that? you guys got any suggestions / articles to read / guidelines?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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GloriouslyInsane

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To me there are only two paths you can take,escalate from where you stand (not recommended) or disappear for a couple months,improve yourself (being seen with multiple girls by her is preferable) and then get back to her and act as if you're starting from 0 and escalate until she stops you/bang her.You know what they say,make the ho say no :p
 

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Agree with GloriouslyInsane

of course, when you return after a couple of months.....you have to make sure you are DJ material.....or you're right back in the friendzone....

I have to say, a couple of months might be aggressive.....I would think you may need longer than that.

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BannedGod

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Well shes a great friend so I dont want to disappear for a few months.. I just want to try for the hell of it because Im bored and I see her often.

LOL @ Mind Body Soul's quote
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Danny1729

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Hey,i tried a BIG mission with my ex gf's best friend,who had me friendzoned cause of my ex.. and i tried for like 4 months man lol,tried everything you could imagine.. did ok,never kissed on the lips.. but it ended up screwing our friendship alot of times,best to leave it till the situation comes right i reckon..

the spiking up interest stuff kinda worked,had her thinking about me.. but not in the "liking" way,more of "whats he playing at??"

if ya know what i mean,anyways good luck
 
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