BannedGod
Senior Don Juan
Say I am in the friend zone with this girl... Just for the hell of it, Id like to try to leave it and get her interest in me spiked up... How can I do that? you guys got any suggestions / articles to read / guidelines?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
How can I leave friend zone (I want to try for fun)
- Thread starter BannedGod
- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
GloriouslyInsane
Master Don Juan
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To me there are only two paths you can take,escalate from where you stand (not recommended) or disappear for a couple months,improve yourself (being seen with multiple girls by her is preferable) and then get back to her and act as if you're starting from 0 and escalate until she stops you/bang her.You know what they say,make the ho say no 
Agree with GloriouslyInsane
of course, when you return after a couple of months.....you have to make sure you are DJ material.....or you're right back in the friendzone....
I have to say, a couple of months might be aggressive.....I would think you may need longer than that.
Fed
of course, when you return after a couple of months.....you have to make sure you are DJ material.....or you're right back in the friendzone....
I have to say, a couple of months might be aggressive.....I would think you may need longer than that.
Fed
Mind_Body_Soul
Senior Don Juan
Yep. Best way is to forget she even exists.
BannedGod
Senior Don Juan
Well shes a great friend so I dont want to disappear for a few months.. I just want to try for the hell of it because Im bored and I see her often.
LOL @ Mind Body Soul's quote
LOL @ Mind Body Soul's quote
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Danny1729
Don Juan
Hey,i tried a BIG mission with my ex gf's best friend,who had me friendzoned cause of my ex.. and i tried for like 4 months man lol,tried everything you could imagine.. did ok,never kissed on the lips.. but it ended up screwing our friendship alot of times,best to leave it till the situation comes right i reckon..
the spiking up interest stuff kinda worked,had her thinking about me.. but not in the "liking" way,more of "whats he playing at??"
if ya know what i mean,anyways good luck
the spiking up interest stuff kinda worked,had her thinking about me.. but not in the "liking" way,more of "whats he playing at??"
if ya know what i mean,anyways good luck