"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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How can I improve my workout routine?

SharinganUser

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Here is my work out routine that I have started over the last week and a half. Everyday, I either try to add a new exercise or add more reps/sets of one I am already doing.

Day 1: 100 push ups, 50 sit ups, neck stretches, 55 front kicks each leg.
Day 2: 100 push ups, 50 sit ups, neck & shoulder stretches, 100 front kicks each leg.
Day 3: 125 push ups, 75 sit ups, 10 field lengths(the field is about 40-50yards, inclined), 100 front kicks, 100 side kicks.
Day 4: 150 push ups, 100 sit ups(curls), 11 field lengths, 205 front kicks, 100 side kicks, neck & shoulder & chest stretches.
Day 5: 150 push ups, 11 field lengths, 100 sit ups.
Day 6: Rest
Day 7: neck & shoulder & chest stretches, 175 push ups, 100 front and side kicks.

Keep in mind I don't have access to a gym or bench, I do have some weights though. What can I do to improve on this?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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AKA FLEX

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Any particular reason you can't join a gym? There is only so much you can do at home, not to mention the motivation factor of being at a place where everyone is trying to buff up.
 

SharinganUser

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The reason I can't join a gym is because the nearest one is about 200 km away. I live in a rural area.
 

Throttle

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your goals?

in any case, add bodyweight squats, add 'supermans', add pull-ups, figure out how to add weight or increase the difficulty of each exercise (one-handed push-ups, for instance) & use fewer reps.
 
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