"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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how can I carry the consvesation forward? even if i know them..

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If this has nothing to do with seduction then it seems slightly random that you would post on this board. anyway...

"how are you( who i know)
what did you do yeterday
what are you gonna do this day
what are you doing
what are you doing rest of the day/weekend"

Unless they're giving one word answers to these questions then you should be able to continue the conversation based on what they say. Look for new information in their sentances.....

I mean come on....a conversation should be able to flow without you needing an arsenal of questions to hit them with.

Look, If you can't even converse with an old friend (who you aren't trying to seduce/ aren't nervous with) then I really don't know how to help you.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by Sacrifice
.. when you are talking to people or a friend.. what do you say?..
talk about all the things that u have in common...with a work colleague u would normally start a conversation about work.....then move on to other subjects like what's new in town, a new concert...something interesting u've seen in a magazine.
I don't think u are really interested in what's going on arround u....tell me what is keeping ur mind busy all the time???
 
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