"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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how can I carry the consvesation forward? even if i know them..

The Juan and only

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If this has nothing to do with seduction then it seems slightly random that you would post on this board. anyway...

"how are you( who i know)
what did you do yeterday
what are you gonna do this day
what are you doing
what are you doing rest of the day/weekend"

Unless they're giving one word answers to these questions then you should be able to continue the conversation based on what they say. Look for new information in their sentances.....

I mean come on....a conversation should be able to flow without you needing an arsenal of questions to hit them with.

Look, If you can't even converse with an old friend (who you aren't trying to seduce/ aren't nervous with) then I really don't know how to help you.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by Sacrifice
.. when you are talking to people or a friend.. what do you say?..
talk about all the things that u have in common...with a work colleague u would normally start a conversation about work.....then move on to other subjects like what's new in town, a new concert...something interesting u've seen in a magazine.
I don't think u are really interested in what's going on arround u....tell me what is keeping ur mind busy all the time???
 
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