"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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how can I carry the consvesation forward? even if i know them..

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If this has nothing to do with seduction then it seems slightly random that you would post on this board. anyway...

"how are you( who i know)
what did you do yeterday
what are you gonna do this day
what are you doing
what are you doing rest of the day/weekend"

Unless they're giving one word answers to these questions then you should be able to continue the conversation based on what they say. Look for new information in their sentances.....

I mean come on....a conversation should be able to flow without you needing an arsenal of questions to hit them with.

Look, If you can't even converse with an old friend (who you aren't trying to seduce/ aren't nervous with) then I really don't know how to help you.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Originally posted by Sacrifice
.. when you are talking to people or a friend.. what do you say?..
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talk about all the things that u have in common...with a work colleague u would normally start a conversation about work.....then move on to other subjects like what's new in town, a new concert...something interesting u've seen in a magazine.
I don't think u are really interested in what's going on arround u....tell me what is keeping ur mind busy all the time???
 
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