"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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how can I carry the consvesation forward? even if i know them..

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If this has nothing to do with seduction then it seems slightly random that you would post on this board. anyway...

"how are you( who i know)
what did you do yeterday
what are you gonna do this day
what are you doing
what are you doing rest of the day/weekend"

Unless they're giving one word answers to these questions then you should be able to continue the conversation based on what they say. Look for new information in their sentances.....

I mean come on....a conversation should be able to flow without you needing an arsenal of questions to hit them with.

Look, If you can't even converse with an old friend (who you aren't trying to seduce/ aren't nervous with) then I really don't know how to help you.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by Sacrifice
.. when you are talking to people or a friend.. what do you say?..
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talk about all the things that u have in common...with a work colleague u would normally start a conversation about work.....then move on to other subjects like what's new in town, a new concert...something interesting u've seen in a magazine.
I don't think u are really interested in what's going on arround u....tell me what is keeping ur mind busy all the time???
 
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