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how? i am too shy and i end up looking weird and being called a dork geek loser etc
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Dude, you don't know him, that's all he does is troll. I've given this guy a chance before, but all he is, is a troll, that gets banned, and keeps coming back, asking the SAME questions, and showing no signs of change. Sure, help someone who's been banned over 20 times if you want, but I think you're seriously wasting your time. Maybe if Dreamx actually showed any sign of improving, we would trust him, but he doesn't, and just keeps trolling. A REAL person, would take the advice, and improve, Dreamx however, is just a loser sitting home at his computer, who enjoys trolling forums acting like a depressed teenager.Dutchy said:Don't say such cr@p MikeViper.
And by the way, you are either here to give advice or to ask advice, so why are you saying such ****.
Yeah, the guy who's going to jazz band camp, and then marching band camp a week after, while you stay at home, and masturbate.^^^^look whos talking
Wow I didn´t know that, is this true Dreamx? Could it be that Dreamx was also known as Tom Juan?MikeViper said:Dude, you don't know him, that's all he does is troll. I've given this guy a chance before, but all he is, is a troll, that gets banned, and keeps coming back, asking the SAME questions, and showing no signs of change. Sure, help someone who's been banned over 20 times if you want, but I think you're seriously wasting your time. Maybe if Dreamx actually showed any sign of improving, we would trust him, but he doesn't, and just keeps trolling. A REAL person, would take the advice, and improve, Dreamx however, is just a loser sitting home at his computer, who enjoys trolling forums acting like a depressed teenager.
The way you worded that was great. Ill need to remember that. Not that Im scared of girls. i think my problem is being afraid of getting hurt. But thats a different story. But Im usually very shy around girls myself for the reason I just said above. But I usually push myself. I think it has slightly built up my self confidence, and gave me a different look on life. I have actually been on this site for 3 years but Ive had different accounts of course. I never had success but heres what I learnedGaryUranga said:a girl is just a person with a vagina and boobs, what are you scared of?
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.