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henrydreamx_not @fc
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how? i am too shy and i end up looking weird and being called a dork geek loser etc
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Michele l'Arcangelo
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im sorry dude.. but i usually do not tell people to read the DJ bible without giving advice... but my advice is to just read the bible... located at the bottom.
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henrydreamx_not @fc
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thnks for not calling me a loser dork etc
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henrydreamx_not @fc
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^^^^look whos talking
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Dude, you don't know him, that's all he does is troll. I've given this guy a chance before, but all he is, is a troll, that gets banned, and keeps coming back, asking the SAME questions, and showing no signs of change. Sure, help someone who's been banned over 20 times if you want, but I think you're seriously wasting your time. Maybe if Dreamx actually showed any sign of improving, we would trust him, but he doesn't, and just keeps trolling. A REAL person, would take the advice, and improve, Dreamx however, is just a loser sitting home at his computer, who enjoys trolling forums acting like a depressed teenager.Dutchy said:Don't say such cr@p MikeViper.
And by the way, you are either here to give advice or to ask advice, so why are you saying such ****.
Yeah, the guy who's going to jazz band camp, and then marching band camp a week after, while you stay at home, and masturbate.^^^^look whos talking
Wow I didn´t know that, is this true Dreamx? Could it be that Dreamx was also known as Tom Juan?MikeViper said:Dude, you don't know him, that's all he does is troll. I've given this guy a chance before, but all he is, is a troll, that gets banned, and keeps coming back, asking the SAME questions, and showing no signs of change. Sure, help someone who's been banned over 20 times if you want, but I think you're seriously wasting your time. Maybe if Dreamx actually showed any sign of improving, we would trust him, but he doesn't, and just keeps trolling. A REAL person, would take the advice, and improve, Dreamx however, is just a loser sitting home at his computer, who enjoys trolling forums acting like a depressed teenager.
GaryUranga
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a girl is just a person with a vagina and boobs, what are you scared of?
XSilverStarboyX
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The way you worded that was great. Ill need to remember that. Not that Im scared of girls. i think my problem is being afraid of getting hurt. But thats a different story. But Im usually very shy around girls myself for the reason I just said above. But I usually push myself. I think it has slightly built up my self confidence, and gave me a different look on life. I have actually been on this site for 3 years but Ive had different accounts of course. I never had success but heres what I learnedGaryUranga said:a girl is just a person with a vagina and boobs, what are you scared of?
-Never be afraid to ask someone out. No one has ever died from being rejected!
-Your the prize. If she doesnt go for it. Not your problem but hers
-When you know she isnt worth it
If someone like myself can learn things about meeting women. You can to!
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.