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henrydreamx_not @fc
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how? i am too shy and i end up looking weird and being called a dork geek loser etc
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Michele l'Arcangelo
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im sorry dude.. but i usually do not tell people to read the DJ bible without giving advice... but my advice is to just read the bible... located at the bottom.
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henrydreamx_not @fc
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thnks for not calling me a loser dork etc
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henrydreamx_not @fc
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^^^^look whos talking
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Dude, you don't know him, that's all he does is troll. I've given this guy a chance before, but all he is, is a troll, that gets banned, and keeps coming back, asking the SAME questions, and showing no signs of change. Sure, help someone who's been banned over 20 times if you want, but I think you're seriously wasting your time. Maybe if Dreamx actually showed any sign of improving, we would trust him, but he doesn't, and just keeps trolling. A REAL person, would take the advice, and improve, Dreamx however, is just a loser sitting home at his computer, who enjoys trolling forums acting like a depressed teenager.Dutchy said:Don't say such cr@p MikeViper.
And by the way, you are either here to give advice or to ask advice, so why are you saying such ****.
Yeah, the guy who's going to jazz band camp, and then marching band camp a week after, while you stay at home, and masturbate.^^^^look whos talking
Wow I didn´t know that, is this true Dreamx? Could it be that Dreamx was also known as Tom Juan?MikeViper said:Dude, you don't know him, that's all he does is troll. I've given this guy a chance before, but all he is, is a troll, that gets banned, and keeps coming back, asking the SAME questions, and showing no signs of change. Sure, help someone who's been banned over 20 times if you want, but I think you're seriously wasting your time. Maybe if Dreamx actually showed any sign of improving, we would trust him, but he doesn't, and just keeps trolling. A REAL person, would take the advice, and improve, Dreamx however, is just a loser sitting home at his computer, who enjoys trolling forums acting like a depressed teenager.
GaryUranga
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a girl is just a person with a vagina and boobs, what are you scared of?
XSilverStarboyX
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The way you worded that was great. Ill need to remember that. Not that Im scared of girls. i think my problem is being afraid of getting hurt. But thats a different story. But Im usually very shy around girls myself for the reason I just said above. But I usually push myself. I think it has slightly built up my self confidence, and gave me a different look on life. I have actually been on this site for 3 years but Ive had different accounts of course. I never had success but heres what I learnedGaryUranga said:a girl is just a person with a vagina and boobs, what are you scared of?
-Never be afraid to ask someone out. No one has ever died from being rejected!
-Your the prize. If she doesnt go for it. Not your problem but hers
-When you know she isnt worth it
If someone like myself can learn things about meeting women. You can to!
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.