"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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how can i be not shy around girls

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how? i am too shy and i end up looking weird and being called a dork geek loser etc
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Michele l'Arcangelo

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im sorry dude.. but i usually do not tell people to read the DJ bible without giving advice... but my advice is to just read the bible... located at the bottom.
 

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You want advice dude? Get a freaking life!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Don't say such cr@p MikeViper.

And by the way, you are either here to give advice or to ask advice, so why are you saying such ****.
 

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Dutchy said:
Don't say such cr@p MikeViper.

And by the way, you are either here to give advice or to ask advice, so why are you saying such ****.
Dude, you don't know him, that's all he does is troll. I've given this guy a chance before, but all he is, is a troll, that gets banned, and keeps coming back, asking the SAME questions, and showing no signs of change. Sure, help someone who's been banned over 20 times if you want, but I think you're seriously wasting your time. Maybe if Dreamx actually showed any sign of improving, we would trust him, but he doesn't, and just keeps trolling. A REAL person, would take the advice, and improve, Dreamx however, is just a loser sitting home at his computer, who enjoys trolling forums acting like a depressed teenager.

^^^^look whos talking
Yeah, the guy who's going to jazz band camp, and then marching band camp a week after, while you stay at home, and masturbate.
 

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MikeViper said:
Dude, you don't know him, that's all he does is troll. I've given this guy a chance before, but all he is, is a troll, that gets banned, and keeps coming back, asking the SAME questions, and showing no signs of change. Sure, help someone who's been banned over 20 times if you want, but I think you're seriously wasting your time. Maybe if Dreamx actually showed any sign of improving, we would trust him, but he doesn't, and just keeps trolling. A REAL person, would take the advice, and improve, Dreamx however, is just a loser sitting home at his computer, who enjoys trolling forums acting like a depressed teenager.
Wow I didn´t know that, is this true Dreamx? Could it be that Dreamx was also known as Tom Juan?
 

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GaryUranga said:
a girl is just a person with a vagina and boobs, what are you scared of?
The way you worded that was great. Ill need to remember that. Not that Im scared of girls. i think my problem is being afraid of getting hurt. But thats a different story. But Im usually very shy around girls myself for the reason I just said above. But I usually push myself. I think it has slightly built up my self confidence, and gave me a different look on life. I have actually been on this site for 3 years but Ive had different accounts of course. I never had success but heres what I learned

-Never be afraid to ask someone out. No one has ever died from being rejected!
-Your the prize. If she doesnt go for it. Not your problem but hers
-When you know she isnt worth it

If someone like myself can learn things about meeting women. You can to!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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