"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How big is your ****?

Dekg140

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First off. No homo lol. Just to get an idea of what the average is, where I stand, and what's considered to be "big"

I stand around 4 inches when soft, 6.5 inches when hard. I've never been too confident with my size
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Iceberg

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Dekg140 said:
First off. No homo

You sure? Because, I mean, if we're talking about it, I might as well whip it out. And if I whip it out....well, you know...

I stand around 4 inches when soft, 6.5 inches when hard. I've never been too confident with my size
What do you think....the rest of the world stands at 18 inches? Stop looking for sh!t to be self conscious about. Do you have all your limbs? Most of your teeth? Are you less than morbidly obese?

Yes? Then you can go find yourself a woman. D!ck size.....psh. First, worry about getting the girl naked. Then worry about your d!ck size.
 

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Dude, you don't use your thumb to pick your nose.
Women are happier when you don't split them in two
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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cablecow15

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lol this thread goes fine until someone says that have a big one and ppl deny it and ppl ask for pics ...... not getting involved here

all Ill say is this , im very well off , and it hasn't really helped my confidence any, I mean should I try to tell girls as soon as I can ? I mean that seems creepy , but lets be honest , what I considered creepy when i started this site, and what I consider creepy now are way diffrent
 

cablecow15

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hithard said:
Dude, you don't use your thumb to pick your nose.
Women are happier when you don't split them in two
you also don't orgasm in your nose ... least I hope you don't lol
 

spang

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all guys' schlongs on the internets are 12 inches. but mine is only 11 inches.....with a 2 inch head.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Zerro

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The average is around 5.5 inches, plenty of studies have been done on it and you could easily just have googled that. Having extra girth has a bigger effect on her pleasure anyway, extra length simply makes some positions easier (especially if you're not very flexible) but overall is not that useful as her vaginal canal isn't going to be deeper than 4 inches or so anyway.

But honestly, technique matters most of all. Women are not automatically satisfied if a guy has a large phallus, especially as many of them can't orgasm from penetration alone. An average guy who also knows how to use his hands and tongue is going to come out way ahead of a guy with a big **** who thinks that he simply has to thrust away and that's it.
 

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isnt that question completely beta?

i mean what has the size of your willie to do with the satisfaction you can get?
or is her satisfaction more important than yours? why is that?

as long as you are no dwarf in that area there wont be any physical problem, anything else is in the head. when you have the attitude of a stallion she will feel like a mare, and that is all that matters. the most important sexual organ is the brain anyways.

that said your size seems just fine.
 

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Women often only brag about that ONE guy with a whale dk
but have more often than not, been with guys in the 5 to 6.5 range

NOTE: A woman will say her bf has a 9 inch dk when he's more like 6.5
It is also a well known fact that women don't make good carpenters
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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As long as ya not so unlucky as to have the balls of a bull and the c0ck of a gerbil I wouldn't worry too much.

But there's nowt worse then stepping out of the shower into the cold to find it looks like a walnut whip.
 

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When the stripper said I had a big **** I said "That is SUCH a compliment coming from someone like you!"
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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