"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
How big is your ****?
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Jair213
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JohnChops
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Iceberg
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Dekg140 said:
You sure? Because, I mean, if we're talking about it, I might as well whip it out. And if I whip it out....well, you know...
What do you think....the rest of the world stands at 18 inches? Stop looking for sh!t to be self conscious about. Do you have all your limbs? Most of your teeth? Are you less than morbidly obese?
Yes? Then you can go find yourself a woman. D!ck size.....psh. First, worry about getting the girl naked. Then worry about your d!ck size.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
cablecow15
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all Ill say is this , im very well off , and it hasn't really helped my confidence any, I mean should I try to tell girls as soon as I can ? I mean that seems creepy , but lets be honest , what I considered creepy when i started this site, and what I consider creepy now are way diffrent
cablecow15
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you also don't orgasm in your nose ... least I hope you don't lolhithard said:
PapiChulo
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Bible_Belt
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
PapiChulo
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But honestly, technique matters most of all. Women are not automatically satisfied if a guy has a large phallus, especially as many of them can't orgasm from penetration alone. An average guy who also knows how to use his hands and tongue is going to come out way ahead of a guy with a big **** who thinks that he simply has to thrust away and that's it.
flashpoint
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i mean what has the size of your willie to do with the satisfaction you can get?
or is her satisfaction more important than yours? why is that?
as long as you are no dwarf in that area there wont be any physical problem, anything else is in the head. when you have the attitude of a stallion she will feel like a mare, and that is all that matters. the most important sexual organ is the brain anyways.
that said your size seems just fine.
Bible_Belt said:
Second you on that ! http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m0eazwbnt01qgcqzko1_1280.jpg
but have more often than not, been with guys in the 5 to 6.5 range
NOTE: A woman will say her bf has a 9 inch dk when he's more like 6.5
It is also a well known fact that women don't make good carpenters
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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But there's nowt worse then stepping out of the shower into the cold to find it looks like a walnut whip.
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Solomon
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.