"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How big is your ****?

Dekg140

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First off. No homo lol. Just to get an idea of what the average is, where I stand, and what's considered to be "big"

I stand around 4 inches when soft, 6.5 inches when hard. I've never been too confident with my size
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Iceberg

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Dekg140 said:
First off. No homo

You sure? Because, I mean, if we're talking about it, I might as well whip it out. And if I whip it out....well, you know...

I stand around 4 inches when soft, 6.5 inches when hard. I've never been too confident with my size
What do you think....the rest of the world stands at 18 inches? Stop looking for sh!t to be self conscious about. Do you have all your limbs? Most of your teeth? Are you less than morbidly obese?

Yes? Then you can go find yourself a woman. D!ck size.....psh. First, worry about getting the girl naked. Then worry about your d!ck size.
 

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Dude, you don't use your thumb to pick your nose.
Women are happier when you don't split them in two
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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cablecow15

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lol this thread goes fine until someone says that have a big one and ppl deny it and ppl ask for pics ...... not getting involved here

all Ill say is this , im very well off , and it hasn't really helped my confidence any, I mean should I try to tell girls as soon as I can ? I mean that seems creepy , but lets be honest , what I considered creepy when i started this site, and what I consider creepy now are way diffrent
 

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hithard said:
Dude, you don't use your thumb to pick your nose.
Women are happier when you don't split them in two
you also don't orgasm in your nose ... least I hope you don't lol
 

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all guys' schlongs on the internets are 12 inches. but mine is only 11 inches.....with a 2 inch head.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The average is around 5.5 inches, plenty of studies have been done on it and you could easily just have googled that. Having extra girth has a bigger effect on her pleasure anyway, extra length simply makes some positions easier (especially if you're not very flexible) but overall is not that useful as her vaginal canal isn't going to be deeper than 4 inches or so anyway.

But honestly, technique matters most of all. Women are not automatically satisfied if a guy has a large phallus, especially as many of them can't orgasm from penetration alone. An average guy who also knows how to use his hands and tongue is going to come out way ahead of a guy with a big **** who thinks that he simply has to thrust away and that's it.
 

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isnt that question completely beta?

i mean what has the size of your willie to do with the satisfaction you can get?
or is her satisfaction more important than yours? why is that?

as long as you are no dwarf in that area there wont be any physical problem, anything else is in the head. when you have the attitude of a stallion she will feel like a mare, and that is all that matters. the most important sexual organ is the brain anyways.

that said your size seems just fine.
 

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Women often only brag about that ONE guy with a whale dk
but have more often than not, been with guys in the 5 to 6.5 range

NOTE: A woman will say her bf has a 9 inch dk when he's more like 6.5
It is also a well known fact that women don't make good carpenters
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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As long as ya not so unlucky as to have the balls of a bull and the c0ck of a gerbil I wouldn't worry too much.

But there's nowt worse then stepping out of the shower into the cold to find it looks like a walnut whip.
 

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When the stripper said I had a big **** I said "That is SUCH a compliment coming from someone like you!"
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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